Date!!!

[Jenny CD]

Just got back... And I'm crying my eyes out. Not because of Paul. He was great, such a gentleman. But his "friend" asked me how much for a BJ. I didn't tell Paul, but he knew something was wrong. Why would Timothy think I was a hooker or something? I'm so upset about this. I wanted to have a good time, which it was until that. Paul and I walked in, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. Had a glass of wine in the lobby before the play, it was great. Saw the play, which I thought was completely silly. Then Paul took my hand and walked me back stage. I was on cloud nine! He introduced me to a few people, no big deal (although I WAS nervous). Paul had to go to the bathroom... Timothy. I hate him.

[kathtx]

Jenny, I am so sorry to hear that one of Paul's friends turned out to be a creep (to put it mildly).

Talk to Paul and let him know one of is "friends" is a creep who propositioned you in the most insulting possible way.

[Jenny CD]

I know... It ruined the night for me. So disappointed.

[ArleneRaquel]

Such a sad happening, the creep is a blight and should be taught a lesson on what being a man is really about. Hugs darlin.

[Jenny CD]

I'm so upset over what happened last night. Didn't sleep a wink. Gawd, why do people think that just because we are trying to be ourselves we are ****s or hookers? Paul prolly thinks I don't like him because I asked him to bring me home. Just gave him a kiss on the cheek. It wasn't his fault. But, I was so very hurt. Apparently, this "creep" has been one of Paul's best friends since they were kids. That's why I didn't say anything to him.

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

Jenny, I am SO sorry too! I can only imagine your hurt. First of all, remember that everyone else treated you with respect, except one jerk. I'd bet you looked very conservative with your outfit and did NOT look in the way this creep perceived you. He certainly doesn't seem to be Paul's friend if he asked you that stupid question.

I can't tell you what to do. I don't know if you should tell Paul because there could be other repercussions. I don't know if you should remain quiet either. Either way you were deeply hurt. I hope you can either resolve this on your own or with Paul. It's too bad you encountered this jerk who spoiled an otherwise fine evening.

HUGGGS!!!!!
Cheryl

PS--EDIT---Jenny, don't EVER let someone control how you feel---old advice........

[Jennifer Marie P.]

That's so cool Jenny have fun.

[Leah Lynn]

Jenny, I understand your dilemma. You probably should tell Paul something. Perhaps just that the "creep" didn't appear to like you, or something. I would only divulge the facts if he asks for them. No matter what, you can't let him assume that everything is okay. He could plan more outings including the dork. That would be unacceptable.

I do hope things work out for you. A sweet guy doesn't come along that often. Hugs,

Leah

[Jenny CD]

I just got off the phone with Paul. He knew something was bothering me so he simply asked and I told him what happened. He's pissed at Timothy. Gawd, I hope this doesn't ruin their friendship. They seemed to have so much fun together until the ugly event. Paul apologized for his friend, but I told him the apology was not his to make. He felt terrible about the stupid proposition. I hate Timothy.

On a happy side note, Paul is picking me for breakfast tomorrow. Think I'll wear those new white shorts I picked up with some flip-flops! Hmmm, should I wear the turquoise blouse or the hot-pink one? Decisions, decisions...

[calebsmithxd]

Jenny, I'm glad to hear the conversation with Paul went well. He sounds great.

[whowhatwhen]

Look at it this way, he's better off if he loses him as a friend.
What kind of sick, twisted human being asks his friend's girlfriend out of the blue for a blowjob?

Good to hear that you're enjoying your time with your new bf though.

[Jenny CD]

Good to hear that you're enjoying your time with your new bf though.

You know, you're right! What kind of friend is he!?!?!?!

You made me giggle! I think I have a boyfriend! Didn't even think about that!!!

[Dana L]

Look at it this way, he's better off if he loses him as a friend.
What kind of sick, twisted human being asks his friend's girlfriend out of the blue for a blowjob?

Good to hear that you're enjoying your time with your new bf though.

That is totally true! Hope all is good. You have us all hanging on the edge of our seats. This is better than romance novel!

[MandyLee]

Hi Jenny, He sure does sound like a keeper, You should greet him with a nice hug and kiss next time you meet and thank him for being so sweet to you. If he's your boyfriend let him know it doesn't mean you have to jump in to bed. I sure hope you give him and your self a chance to see what kind of Girlfriend you'll make I'm betting you both could be a happy couple.

[whowhatwhen]

You made me giggle! I think I have a boyfriend! Didn't even think about that!!!

That made me smile IRL.

[Nicole Erin]

The guy who asked for a BJ probably didn't do it to insult you. He is probably some geekazoid who just has no idea how to act in public.

[Maria in heels]

Jenny....
Paul should understand that it was HIS friend that did this, and it is a real insult to you. I am sure that Paul will make this up to you, and he should apologize for his friend..there are those magic words "his friend". It means a lot if Paul tries to make this up to you, as he should. Friend or no friend, it just was totally rude and crude what Timothy did to you.

[AmyGaleRT]

OMGWTFBBQ! Jenny, girl, that was no ordinary creeper, that was Creepasaurus Rex! I'd have been to tempted to just kick him right you-know-where if I were in your place, but I think I'd probably try my best to not say anything, just look at him as if he were something I'd just scraped off the bottom of my shoe. You know, go total "ice queen" on him.

Timothy is scum, but in a way that makes me want to apologize to scum for comparing it to him!

At least Paul is standing up for his lady! That ranks him high in my book. I hope you enjoy your next time out with him!

- Amy

[rocketscientist]

Glad your back on track Jenny. Would love to see some pics of your outfits. Sounds like your having a blast. Keep us posted. Hugs,Tonya

[Sandygal]

Hi Jenny...I hope your thread continues...it is very interesting to live through you on your first experiences. If it was a movie, I would be on the edge of my seat, hoping you have a wonderful ending.

[Jenny CD]

Going out again tonight. He asked me to dress nice. What does that MEAN???? Black dress and heels? Going for a facial today, getting the brows done. Of course shaving everything on my body. But.... I'm scared. Because I think I'm ready for the next step. Paul has been the sweetest person, protective, handsome, so nice... everything a girl would want in a man. But, I'm still nervous. Can't get over this feeling. Just thinking about tonight makes my heart jump! What if I mess it up? What if I go too fast? What IS too fast? What if he doesn't like me when the clothes come off, if they come off? Oh gawd....

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

Jenny, stop with the "what if's" !! LOL! Maybe you're making yourself nervous because of them? I know you're excited and want it to go well---typical woman! LOL! So far Paul has already been a fine gentleman, and I'm sure he'll help you feel comfortable. You might want to ask him what he meant about dressing nice by asking what kind of occasion it will be. Formal, Semi-formal, etc.? Meanwhile enjoy the facial and all!!! Think about just having fun!

Cheryl

[Jenny CD]

I know!!! Just nervous. But, I got my facial. Wonderful!! Got my brows waxed... they even did my nails. Feeling very good right now. So, I'm wearing my little black dress and looking forward to where Paul is taking me. OMG!!! So excited!!!

[Jenny CD]

What a night!!! Paul took me to the casino first! Didn't win anything, awwww.... Then we went to a private party at a business partner's house. OMG!!! Paul seemed so proud to be seen with me. I just felt like a guy in a dress!!! Oh Lord... what have I got myself into? Everybody was so nice... maybe they sensed that I was terrified?!?!? Again, Paul was the perfect gentleman. When he dropped me off I hugged him close and we had a passionate kiss (giggle)!!! Gawd, I wanted to ask him in... I just didn't know how. I'm so silly. Could have just took his hand and brought him in. But, he is such the gentleman that there was no pressure. He knows I'm scared. sooo... blushing....

[Kelly Smith]

Gawd, I wanted to ask him in... I just didn't know how. I'm so silly.

After the kiss, smile and casually say "Would you like to come in?" He will say, "Sure", "Yes", "i would love to" or something similar. It really is that easy.