Date!!!

[Jenny CD]

Okay... So I just got back from my first date as Jenny!!! Oh my GOD! I was so freaking nervous. Okay, so he is a complete gentleman. Wasn't boastful, arrogant, a tranny chaser... He said he just wanted to spend a little time with a cute woman. I told him that I am Bi and a CD. He was okay with that. He took me to a popular restaurant where we ate and had a couple of drinks and good conversation. Wow, I was so excited!!!

[Dawn]

Congratulations Jenny! That's wonderful hun. Now the question is......are you going to see him again?

[Jenny CD]

Yeah, I think Jenny is. He is really cute, down to Earth, good job, so very nice. I guess we will see! I'm so freaking nervous, though!!! Never done this before!!!

[Princess Grandpa]

Hug

That's awesome! Living life.

Hug
Rita

[ArleneRaquel]

Jenny,
Thank you for sharing your lovely & endearing story.

[JuliaC]

Id love to be able to experience a date as a girl!

[Barbara Ella]

Great for you Jenny, and thanks for sharing. Really do hope this works out and you two go out more.

Barbara

[Rachelakld]

Good on you Jenny, don't be nervous, life is about having fun.

[Cindy M]

Sounds exciting. Thanks for sharing. Keep us updated

Cindy

[rocketscientist]

So, what did you wear on your date?

[Beverley Sims]

Jenny,
Sometimes dreams do come true,
I hope they do for you.

[vikki2020]

Nice! So, what did you wear?

[Jenny CD]

Oh, okay... So, I wore a cute little casual and fun black skirt, two inch open toed heels, and a white blouse that covered up my ugly lion tattoo. I shoulda taken a picture! Anyway, I dressed pretty casual as it was a lunch date. BTW, he called and wants to take me to a movie. I said "The Conjuring"? His voice kinda shook and he said he doesn't watch scary movies! I love them! Strike one! Naw, J/K!!!

[Lorileah]

he is a complete gentleman. Wasn't boastful, arrogant, took me to a popular restaurant where we ate and had a couple of drinks and good conversation.

Sounds like a keeper. We don't have to tell you to be careful do we? Guys can break your heart quickly. And now a movie! I respect any man who will take you to dinners or movies.

[nethiker55]

Good for you Jenny, that is sooo exciting happy it went well. Don't hold the scary movie thing against him he sounds wonderful otherwise, so enjoy

[jenni_xx]

Did you tell him that you're bi and a cd on your date, or before you met?

Also, in a subsequent post, you referred to "Jenny" in the third person. Is that how you see "Jenny" - as someone separate to your own identity?

[rocketscientist]

Did you tell him that you're bi and a cd on your date, or before you met?

Ummm...didn't you read the OP?

[monalisa]

Good for you Jenny. Something we think or fantasize about and you are living and experiencing going out on dates as a woman. Keep us advised as to how it is going.

[Jorja]

Isn't life great, Jenny? I am glad you had a good time. I hope there are many more to come.

[Cheryl Ann Owens]

Jenny! This is something I've always dreamed of! Yes, I am married to an awesome lady but if I were single I'd love to be in your shoes. Now don't let that goodnight kiss escalate into something more unless you're ready! LOL! There is nothing wrong about this! Just BE yourself.

Cheryl

[Jenny CD]

Also, in a subsequent post, you referred to "Jenny" in the third person. Is that how you see "Jenny" - as someone separate to your own identity?

Yeah, I do that. It kinda became a habit referring to Jenny in the third person. Honestly don't know why I started doing that. But, I'm dressing as Jenny more and more often. I started HRT a few weeks ago and I guess my identity is slowly changing to Jenny on a more permanent basis. I mean it's pretty obvious that I'm femme.... I wear nail polish to work and such. And I deal with the public daily. No one has really said anything. Looking forward to the day when I can wear a nice skirt suit to work! I feel it's just around the corner.... As long as the ghosts leave me alone!!! LOL!!! Guess I have to actually BUY a skirt suit or two, as well. Most of my femme clothes are casual with short skirts. Not good business attire!

Anyway, back to Paul... I'm really excited about this Friday! He's going to pick me up and take me to movie, then dinner. What do I eat though? Salad? Or should I put a feed bag on my face and go to town?!?!?

[prene]

Nice story.
Sounds safe and fun.
I have never dated a guy.
How did it end?
Did you hug goodbye, kiss on the cheek, shake hands?

I would love to just to see what it is like to be a girl on a date.
But I am still looking for a accepting gg.

[sherri]

I wouldn't order salad for dinner, but I would keep it light, easy to eat (no spaghetti!) and not too expensive unless he steers you that way. If he knows the place well he might recommend something while chatting about the menu. I sometimes like to reciprocate by buying the pre-dinner drinks at the bar, or maybe pop in someplace on the way home to treat him to coffee or dessert.

If you keep dating, sooner or later he's gonna make a move, right? Are you okay with that? If not, I wouldn't exploit his generosity. I'm not suggesting you would, just sayin.

[windycissy]

You go girl! The fact that he called you up and asked you out again is awesome, well played! He's hooked, now reel him in nice and slow and enjoy every moment along the way...remember that you have one huge edge over every woman he's ever met: you really know what makes a guy feel great - call it inside information : )

[Jenny CD]

Nice story.

How did it end?
Did you hug goodbye, kiss on the cheek, shake hands?

Well, he walked me to my door and we said our goodbyes with a hug and then he kissed my hand at the door. (Tee, hee) I felt like a high school girl! I didn't know how to react!