Jenny, you did know how to act, just like a high school girl! I don't think I would let his being afraid of scary movies slow you down.
A man that will treat you like a lady, a nice lady, and he enjoys your company, and he took you to a popular restaurant means he likes being seen with a good look woman on his arm, sweetie, I'd hang on tight, and just see where this adventure is going to take you.
Keep us posted, a lot of girls dream of finding themselves in that place.
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Oooo how cool!!
Reel him in slowly GF LOL.
Been there done that a few times and yes it is awesome having a good looking man on your arm.
Like many here I dream of a date someday and understand your giddy girlishness, it must have been such a thrill. I would love to dance with a man and laugh with him.
Keep us posted we are all eager to hear.
hugs rita
Dressing is not a choice.
Its a passion.
There is nothing so much fun, so fulfilling to us as women, as to be hit on or danced with by men. I love being the woman that I am and everything that goes with that.
Hi Jenny, It sounds like you are his little piece of Arm Candy it sounds like you are having fun , Just be careful.
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Well, it sounds like things are going well.
Next step - see if the dates are at least semi-regular. You also understand that at some point, men do want sex.
So a couple more dates, a roll in the hay, and whatever
After that, it is up to destiny to decide where it goes. May be a long term FWB, more serious relationship, may be someone you are "seeing" sometimes or you two may decide it isn't gonna work and move on. No one knows yet.
You are off to a good start, whatever direction it heads.
It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.
Jenny, don't listen to anyone telling u not to be nervous. U should be nervous and that's allrite. Most of us would have no clue how to act as a woman on a date with a man. Stay within your comfort zone and eventually you'll become the natural Jenny!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
How did last night go, Jenny? Please share sweetie!!
Last night was great! I was dressed casually, white denim mini-skirt (not too short) and a pink blouse, just got some new and really cute sandals that went well with the outfit. I felt really cute! Paul was wearing kaki Dockers with a white polo shirt and the watch on his arm was stunning. He looked cute. Anyway, he took me to a 60's style restaurant that was packed! I was so nervous. Maybe it was me... but no one really gave us a second glance. Even when I went to the bathroom. A little surprised, but thankful. I ordered the chicken salad... Really, I wasn't too hungry. Paul just had a cheese-burger. It looked good, too. So, after dinner I talked him into seeing "The Conjuring". He was relunctant, but he went... What a scary friggen movie! Oh my gosh!! Scarier than the Grudge! I kept grabbing Paul's arm during the scary parts, I had chills like a little girl through out the movie!!! And again, it didn't seem like anyone paid any attention to us. What a great feeling. So after we got scared halfway to death he took me to a nice little club downtown for a couple of drinks and conversation. He did try to make a move on me, but I told him I wasn't ready for that. He was a total gentleman... I guess around midnight he brought me home, I gave him a hug and kiss on the cheek. He didn't try to force himself on me or anything. He told me that he just likes my company, sense of humor and (tee-hee) my beauty (BLUSH!!!). He called me this morning to ask if I slept well, how sweet. He's treating me to lunch tomorrow. So, would that be considered the third date rule? (BLUSHING)
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wow, this is getting serious! good for you jenny, enjoy!! so whats new with the casino guy??
paula
Jenny, you are living the dream, no doubt about that! I always have Sabrina's feelings to consider, but I would love to have a man take me out and treat me like a lady, at least once. Just to have the experience!
Usually, I'm told, the fourth date is kind of the "sexual watershed," where, if the spark is there, that's where it will happen. I'm not saying that you have to keep Paul at arm's length, or you have to nail him to the ground, but, if you enjoy his company, don't be afraid to let things develop, to whatever point you feel comfortable with. But maintain control of the situation. Remember, as a woman, you have great power over men if you choose to exercise it, and, just like in Spider-Man, "With great power comes great responsibility."
Also remember Miss Manners' outline of dating: there should always be food, entertainment, and affection. Initially, it's more focused on the entertainment, not so much on the affection. In subsequent dates, the entertainment can be scaled back, while the affection is ramped up a bit. When the affection becomes the entertainment, we no longer call that "dating." But under no circumstances should you omit the food.
- Amy
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aka Amelia Storm - Ms. Majestic Hearts of All Colorado 2018-2019, Miss Majestic Hearts of All Colorado 2015-2016
You are so smart AMY!!!
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Great update, Jenny! Good luck to you and your new relationship.
Hi Jenny,
In my experience, by about now the guy is hoping that things will start to go further. He sounds great.
Fair enough... but, I'm so new to the "dating scene", I don't know how to behave on a 3rd or 4th date!Originally Posted by Emma500
Somebody please help!!!
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Hi Jenny,
I think you just need to do whatever feels right to you honey. For me, I like it when a guy is really romantic. The main thing is don't let him go too fast!, take things at a pace that suits you. If he is a decent guy. I think he will understand
Went to lunch today. What a good time! I feel weird telling ya'll, but I became very attracted to Paul. He's very good looking, dresses nice and treats me like a lady. What is the deal with him?!!?!? Is he really attracted to me or my female persona which is becoming me on a more day to day basis. Is it the fantasy thing being with a CD/T-gurl? I don't know. I hate to think of the negativity about all this... But, I can't help it. Anyway, he was again the perfect gentleman, didn't push himself on me or anything. But I did give him a gentle kiss goodbye. His strong hand on the small of my back was intoxicating. Thought about asking him in, but then changed my mind when I was about to open my mouth to speak. Got nervous!!! So, that was today. Hopefully I can bring more good news!
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He sounds like an awesome date!!
Yeah I'm jealous LOL.
Jenny....It sounds like you are having a wonderful time, and so far, Paul is the wonderful person who you are getting to know. As in any relationship, it takes time to build, so I think that there isn't a 3 or 4 date rule...just do what you feel right for yourself, not for him. If you feel comfortable, by all means, lead in the "dance" and enjoy yourself.
NEVER NEVER NEVER PUT "THE FEED BAG" ON!!!!!! Girls don't do that!!!!!! Dine conservatively and ladylike!!!!!!
Molly
"To thine own self be true"
Sounds like you are getting closer and closer to the intimate moment. You have us all sitting on the edge of our seats waiting for the next date.
I guess that is the problem, Maria. I don't know HOW to lead in the dance. Don't get me wrong, I've been with a man before. But this is different. I really like him and I don't want to ruin it by doing something stupid or rushing into something, if that makes sense. I could really use ya'lls help! I mean, IF I feel comfortable enough to take the next step, HOW?!?!? Gosh, I feel like a silly high-school girl with a crush!
As a male, I didn't have this problem. I knew how to behave. This is all brand new to me...
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Well sweetie, just do what feels comfortable. He will undoubtedly ask you out again and hopefully it will be a romantic date and you will know when it feels right. If you are comfortable just be affectionate which will let him know you are open to him progressing further.
Okay... So let me ask... When we exit the car I reach for his hand, we hold hands into the restaurant or whatever, he opens the door for me and puts his hand on my lower back to escort me in. At the movies I kept grabbing his arm, and we walked out holding hands. Am I moving to fast? He's been nothing but nice, and I want to progress I just don't know how.
BTW Trish... Nice legs!
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I think you're thinkin' too much. :-) If you wanna take it up a notch, just give him a signal, he'll take it from there.
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