Fantasy.

[Girl]

In addition, from what I've read is that the butt can be an erogenous zone for women as well.
Aside from the prostate there's still a tonne of nerves down there and there are other reasons as well on why it can be enjoyable for women as well.

I wonder how much more tolerant the world would be if more men just took it up the butt.

Oh yes please!

Totally agree with you both!

[SophieKitty]

Being with a guy has crossed my mind more than once, but more like as a dominatrix. I'm very much an outspoken feminist. So as far as being in bed as the girl with another guy, I'd have to be the one in control. Although I'm bi-dominant so it really would depend on my mood. However if i was to have any sexual relationship with a guy they would really, really have to prove themselves special, as i don't really find the male from attractive. The emotional connection would have to be extremely strong for me to consider it in real life.

[joanna4]

I have fantasized about being with a man en femme. It is a few men I've chatted with on other forums. I would fantasized about meeting up , going for a walk, dinner, movies, bar, in various outfits and being treated like a woman. I have no desire to actually make it happen. I'm in a relationship and I think its safe to say that if I wasn't, there is a high chance that I would have gone out with a man.

[julie marie1]

I am not interested in being physical with a man. However, I would enjoy dinner and dancing as someone's date. He, of course would want to be part of the fantasy. I can see being the female attention of someone for an evening.

[DanielleT]

I thought about it, dreamed about it, fantasized about it for a very long time. One very special night, I shared myself completely with a man. For me, it was the culmination of my womanhood. I knew that I could not continue living as I was, without that experience. Loved it, never looking back now.

[DarciB]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Danielle, you are one hot lady!

[ruthie801]

It's been more then a fantasy for me I loved it

[StephanieCD21]

I have been with a couple of men, but never as a woman. I would really like to. I am sure the experience will be completely different from my femme point of view.

[Girl]

I have been with a couple of men, but never as a woman. I would really like to. I am sure the experience will be completely different from my femme point of view.

I've only been with a man a few times but always as a woman so I don't know how it compares to doing it as a man. All I can say is that for me it's the ultimate feminine experience and I loved every time!

It's been more then a fantasy for me I loved it

I so agree! It's the most wonderful, feminine experience!

[rita63]

I've never been with a man dressed and it was many years ago when I was as a guy. Now that I am single again I am looking forward to it and to a small degree encouraging it. As someone who struggles with alcohol I am starting to attend sober events looking for a chance to flirt and enjoy finding out who I am.

hugs rita

[Chickhe]

Probably everyone thinks about it at some point. Personally, I'm straight, so the thought of being with a man is far from appealing to me. However, I have had some interaction on a social level and I've got to admit I do feel good when a man holds the door, smiles at me or wants to dance with me. However, knowing it is all makeup and padding on the outside, it feels very superficial also. To me, I find the way people react to me as a male vs female very fascinating...I am the same person inside, but people are way more friendly to my female version.

[Genesis]

At age 44 about a month ago I made my fantasy a reality. I was with another CD/TV and it was one of the most fun and exciting experiences I have ever had. Dressing up together and bringing out the fem side of myself was so erotic.

[kellibra]

i share this fantasy too. what woman would not want to be made love to by her BF? it is normal for us to have these thoughts as we feel and think like women deep down. i imagine myself dressed like the girl i want to become, long soft flowing hair, hoop earrings, tasteful make-up, white blouse, a pink bra, short dress just above the knee, nude stockings and 4" pumps or high heel sandals. hoping not to offend the moderators, i would then want to be caressed and aroused as a woman should be. the favor would be returned with a slow and seductive blow-job but without finishing as that would be reserved for penetration in the missionary position. a dream for now... i wonder how HRT will change that dream?

[Tawne]

If you know who you are deep down you shouldn't feel guilty. You're allowed to make your own choices in life, as it's your life to live out, of course as long as you aren't hurting others there shouldn't be any problems with it.

[Girl]

At age 44 about a month ago I made my fantasy a reality. I was with another CD/TV and it was one of the most fun and exciting experiences I have ever had. Dressing up together and bringing out the fem side of myself was so erotic.

I can really relate to what you say. I know experiences can be different for different people but for me, they're absolutely fun, exciting and erotic!

[molly m]

i share this fantasy too. what woman would not want to be made love to by her BF? it is normal for us to have these thoughts as we feel and think like women deep down. i imagine myself dressed like the girl i want to become, long soft flowing hair, hoop earrings, tasteful make-up, white blouse, a pink bra, short dress just above the knee, nude stockings and 4" pumps or high heel sandals. hoping not to offend the moderators, i would then want to be caressed and aroused as a woman should be. the favor would be returned with a slow and seductive blow-job but without finishing as that would be reserved for penetration in the missionary position. a dream for now... i wonder how HRT will change that dream?

i am brand new here, but while i was patiently waiting for my "activation," i was immediately drawn to this thread and couldn't wait to respond. while dressing up has been a long and pretty gradual evolution for me (briefly summarized in my "introduction" post), developing this very fantasy has been a fairly recent – and very surprising – occurrence. Surprising because I have always been exclusively heterosexual, and I don’t see that changing. I have never been “curious” or had a moment when I was sexually attracted to any man (and, no, that isn’t some kind of “denial,” which even i might suspect if i was reading this). I love women and everything about them and I have been fortunate enough to have enjoyed a very satisfying sex life with beautiful women, including a long marriage that eventually ended. as i explain in greater detail in my intro, it has only been in the last couple years that i have turned it up from simply extending my pantyhose fetish to myself and dressing up with wigs and other clothes that i have realized how much i enjoy exploring my female side. when i dress up, i like being a girl, not just a guy wearing women's clothes.

so, while “being” a girl, it was inevitable that I would have to get around to fantasizing about “being with” a man, right? I mean, if you’re a heterosexual girl, anyway, part of that is a strong interest in men. So, the “surprising" occurrence is that, when I’m dressed up, I have developed this fantasy that could only play out when I was in my female persona. I will spare you all the details (both because I have rambled on too long already and I’m mindful of the rules that I read for this site – although I’m pleasantly surprised that a reference to “blow job” apparently passed muster), but it winds up with the same “returned favor” that kellibra explains. Except that I would want the “finish” (again, very surprising to me, but I’m pretty convinced that I would enjoy that as a girl). And, to be perfectly honest, I think I would enjoy having a little audience and even a video record (tastefully done, of course) of my first, so that I could enjoy watching it. The fantasy includes exactly what I would be wearing, which is extremely hot to me, and already in my wardrobe. I bet I’d be really good at it because I’ve been on the receiving end of many and it’s tough to tell a woman what she might do better in that situation. I think it just comes down to wanting to be a little ****ty while I’m a girl. I know from experience that’s a pretty common sentiment. And, while I certainly understand kellibra’s sentiments about having vaginal intercourse, I don’t see a vagina in my future and I certainly could not endure anal intercourse. My doctor literally laughs at my reaction to a prostate exam and tells me I will have to be completely knocked out when I have to have a colonoscopy because of how much I scream like a little girl when he sticks his finger up my ass. That is a one-way street as far as I’m concerned.
But I digress. Right now, the above is a strong fantasy, although I doubt it will ever come to fruition.

i'm really not sure how i should feel about this, but i would be in total denial if i didn't confess that it feels incredibly hot to think about when i'm in my female persona. I’d be interested in hearing whether it resonates at all with anyone else. But, it was fun expressing it to others anyway!

p.s., i see from the preview that i have apparently had a word censored. to help in that regard, the first three of the four censored letters are "slu" because i'm not sure you would otherwise be able to know what i was saying there.

[julie marie1]

Suppose one wanted to date a man. By this I mean dinner, dancing. etc. A nice night out, no sex. Where would one find such an agreeable mane. Is there an escorts for crossdressers service?

[Ellery Monroe]

Yes, I think about it quite often. Never done anything though, but maybe I'll find the right guy someday. = ]

[Dalva]

I've thought about it. Perhaps if the right man came my way, but he would have to be a gentleman, clean, passionate and respectful. But to be honest, it probably won't happen because it's not something I would pursue. Now, on the other hand, another CD?... yes, I would.

[Tawne]

I've had these thoughts enter my mind many times when en femme and I have since lived the fantasy and all I can say is that it is much better than imagining, just like putting a piece of chocolate in your mouth (if you are with the right person ofc and not some idiot!).

[JamieTG]

I've experimented with other CDs and was guilty at first for liking it. After a while the guilt faded as I accepted that its alright to change and like something new and different.

[Celina]

Great thread and interesting to read peoples responses.

I had those fantasies too. I think it's quite common even for straight guys to have a fantasy of being with another man at some point in life? I never really thought about it that much, but I think, I would go with it and try it if the chance came, cos I think I really would like to! If I really would do it... Guess I really have to be in the situation for me to know how I would react. Think i'd be scared as hell

[Sarah V]

I think I am getting closer to my goal here. Quite closer in fact, and I think I will get to find out this coming weekend. I am very happy about it, and I really can not wait! Wish me luck ladies!

[Alice Torn]

Yes, I have met up with three different men via Craigslist. I screened them, and tood them all that i would or would not do, and, they were ok with it. The first time, was a bit awkward. He mssaged my legs. I modeled a few outfits, and did not touch much at all. He decided not to meet again. The next time, i met a man with some health issues, and i modeled several dresses, then, did some moderate touching. He kept stroking himself, for about an hour, but was dry. I finally hugged him, and left. It was ok, and i felt like a pretty lady. The third guy, i met, and watched some TV, talked, and i modeled dresses for him, then let him massage my legs, then we went to bed, and "pretended", touching all over. We met again, and did the same, then he decided not to meet again. All were single men. I felt like a classy lady each time, but my limits, may have turned them off. It was a fabulous feeling modeling, as a supertall classy lady. I am very cautious, and screen out almost every guy who is interested. May never do it again, if i keep attracting trolls.

[Mistress Roxy]

i share this fantasy too. what woman would not want to be made love to by her BF? it is normal for us to have these thoughts as we feel and think like women deep down. i imagine myself dressed like the girl i want to become, long soft flowing hair, hoop earrings, tasteful make-up, white blouse, a pink bra, short dress just above the knee, nude stockings and 4" pumps or high heel sandals.

I am a woman and I know this feeling perfectly since I was a teen. A man can’t feel these sensations. There is “some kind of magic” in clothes, make up, some mannerisms and behaviour that make me feel sexy and seductive. This is the “heart” of being girlie, as far as I concern. There is a strong association with the pleasure of being a woman. If you are playing this role, a gentleman suits perfectly in it.