Yeah, I just went out for a beer. The proprieter paid the tab 'cause I was bereft of the necessary funds to complete the transaction. In a town of less than 1500 souls. But you would be suprised. They seemed to love me..,even though I was a TRANS..,you know what I mean? I had the nerve & verve. They thought I was a hoot! They do respond favourably towards the non-retractable behavior. . It was a favorable experience because I laid myself open to the enevitable. I believe that to be the key. However,I did not get a date. Because I didn't want one. Just acceptance. Love &kisses,