About telling friends. Luca and I discussed who I was going to tell. But I told him that I felt I needed to share with someone who would be able to help me through my stuggles. But my best friend is awesome. He even showed her is new girl jeans, she has seen his side of the closet. She knows Luca is just Luca. I agree its good for her to talk to someone about. Although its your secret and you may feel a weight for telling her, that weight has now just been transferred to her. Secrets are always someones burden to keep. She needs to know that who she wants to tell is trustworthy enough. But you also have tp realize, this is her burden to shoulder down too. Discuss which one friend she wants to tell together. Consider the consequences and benefits, but in the end. She might need someone. I did. I got all the wonderful people here though too.![]()