I never go for the glitz and glam. I think it brings attention to me, and then I feel outed and cover blown. I only get to dress once or maybe twice a month, so when I do go out en femme, I like to wear a skirt or dress. I have worn jeans to the grocery, but wear my women's jeans to work all the time. However, we are now planning / getting ready to visit a museum and I'm pretty sure I'll wear capris and a casual top.