If I was a GG....

[Allison Chaynes]

I don't know how my whole life would have differed, but I do wonder if my wife and I would have still ended up together....

[Jana]

Hi Anne, I don't like what-ifs that much. It's too broad a scope to even speculate. I have no idea what it would be like had I been born a girl. I mean, what if I were a GG but had gender dysphoria and were unhappy in that body also? I don't know, regarding gender issues, I prefer to live in the "here and now", know what I mean?

[SuzieLod]

The hole thing does not make much sense when you try to imagine YOU yourself as a GG. Reason is you would not be your current self to begin with.

So many things would be different.

So its a nice speculation, but not much substance to it

[AnneB1nderful]

This was just a fun fantasy. The reality is that there are too many variables in life if I were born a GG to really know what "could've been". I am what I am and I have no regrets for my past. I have a wonderful family and cherish all those memories as son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend. That will never be taken away nor do I want it to be removed from anyone's memories. But, that was me playing the traditional role of a man. I was those things, but only because I was suppressing the innermost part of me. So, I can't, and don't want to change the past. I just want to live my life to the best for today and prepare for the future with the knowledge that I have no idea what the future holds. Just as I can only speculate what could've been, I can only speculate what could happen next. The key is to not let these those become regret or worry but to have fun with these thoughts.