Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 26 to 37 of 37

Thread: I would like to come out and tell a friend...a bit lengthy but would love feedback

  1. #26
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    69
    Quote Originally Posted by michelle33 View Post
    I wish I agreed with you but I don't think she does. In the past, I've been with a few of her girlfriends. I've never shown any signs of the real me with her/them.
    It dont matter I was phony and married a stripper as a 2nd wife close girls "as friends" always knows.

  2. #27
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Ireland
    Posts
    43
    I hope she does! It would make things a lot easier.

    Quote Originally Posted by stephene513 View Post
    It dont matter I was phony and married a stripper as a 2nd wife close girls "as friends" always knows.

  3. #28
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2008
    Location
    S.E.Baltimore Co. Maryland USA
    Posts
    43,781
    Hi Michelle, Be careful what you wish for I don't see how this can end well unless it's a friend with benefits.
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

    I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !

    If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.

    Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!

  4. #29
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Ireland
    Posts
    43
    I'm only into men so the friends with benefits bit doesn't apply. Thanks for responding. Getting great feedback here. Love this community.

    Quote Originally Posted by BLUE ORCHID View Post
    Hi Michelle, Be careful what you wish for I don't see how this can end well unless it's a friend with benefits.

  5. #30
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Location
    A bit south of the 49th!
    Posts
    23,676
    I lean against telling this woman. You're close to her husband and would expect her to keep a secret from him. Not cool.

  6. #31
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Ireland
    Posts
    43
    Very fair point!

    Quote Originally Posted by kimdl93 View Post
    I lean against telling this woman. You're close to her husband and would expect her to keep a secret from him. Not cool.

  7. #32
    Aspiring Member Megan Thomas's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Location
    Essex, UK.
    Posts
    602
    FWIW, if you tell either of them I suggest it's the husband first. If you tell her first he might come to resent you if/when she tells him (as wives tend to do). I'd approach him along the lines of telling him and then seeking his approval to involve his wife in your activities.

  8. #33
    Julie Gaum Julie Gaum's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2005
    Location
    Lake Worth, Florida
    Posts
    647
    Very uncomfortable and unaccepting of your real/true motives even though you really believe in what you're writing. Where do you think it will really end? As a soulmate? As a girlfriend? Possibly yes after you have transitioned and at that time they both have accepted Michelle. You have been with her alone and she has been a good friend and down the road they can be again. I don't make suggestions as one who has transitioned but I wish that a member who is already into either the initial stages or is post op would give you a few clues as to what to expect in the sense that you will have a full plate for the next few years without needing to lose friendships you would cultivate when most needed as Michelle. In summary: IMO a lousy idea during the time you should be planning for your future life.
    Julie

  9. #34
    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Lowestoft UK. Beverley was here.
    Posts
    30,955
    Keep your married friend as a friend and do not destroy a relationship built up over time.
    If you are single go out and meet someone with like interests.
    If like the rest of us you are already in a relationship share this with your SO.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

  10. #35
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Ireland
    Posts
    43
    Thank you all so much for your feedback. I've reflected on all your views along with my own thoughts and I am not going to 'reveal' myself to my good friend. The collective power of this community is pretty awesome and I am proud and honoured to be part of it.

    Thanks again

    M

  11. #36
    Banned Spammer
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    Location
    Between here and there but mostly here close to the donuts.
    Posts
    22,257
    Why try to deceive her in any way? Seems like a way for you to deny it if she gets pissed and suspects you did it.Yes she can figure out your IP address and pretty much know you sent the email.
    IMO your are going to piss off her husband in a big way and lose two friends by doing this.I don't care how much you say all you want is a GF to shop and talk with the husband isn't going to see it that way.
    If you HAVE to tell her man up and tell her don't be a puss.

  12. #37
    Aspiring Artist Kelly DeWinter's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Location
    Wherever there is a Sale or Macys, but mostly Baltimore MD
    Posts
    3,368
    This reminds me of a big convoluted lie, that will one day unravel on you, a lot of pees here have given you good advice, if you are going to come out to your friend , just do it, she WILL tell her husband no matter how you do it. You can't be certian she would keep something like this from her husband. And why would you want her to lie to her husband anyway ?
    Kelly DeWinter
    Find Kelly at:
    Kelly's Blog
    Flicker
    [COLOR=#2e8b57

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State