Okay girls -
I just got off a beautiful vacation with my wife and kids and assorted family and friends. Apart from the standard dramas and such I was able to relax and take deep breaths, sleep and eat a lot, exercise some and basically live my life like I'd really want it to be if I didn't have to work. So back to the stressful job and life, bills, pressures and such.
So here's the thing. While I was away I didn't think nearly about dressing or my gender identity, or as to what was up with me. I wasn't checking this forum as there was too much family time to attend to, and I got a lot of love from my kids. Idyllic, right? A relief from anxiety that I deal with pretty much on a daily basis.
So here's my question; is the CDing and questions I have arise from some coping mechanism for the daily struggles of life? Am I a "real" CD? Or does this point to me overloading on the impossibility/possibility of being TS? I know for some it's a life threatening struggle but for the last two weeks it wasn't quite as much. I know I can't live life like this most of the time, but what if? Would I still feel the same? Would the need to be "me" as in the female me decrease and I'd realize it was all a thing I'd invented to give me the ups and downs I need to feel something in this life? Is it not a gender thing but a me thing?
I remember having feelings about "giving up" crossdressing, and when I really examined my soul I placed its importance so high and so very precious to me that I really couldn't. I still feel that way, but it's become clearer that its not just dressing obviously - it's a part of who I am.
So how does a part of me get put on hold because there was alternately ao many other joys? Does this happen to any of you other girls?
Thanks
Darla