I want to transition, I want to start HRT I want this blank blankity GD to go away. I told my counselor that a month ago but also said that I am not ready to come out too everybody. At my age (55) I really don't think that HRT will affect me that fast but what if it does? I mean great but financially I am not sure I am ready yet.
The dynamics of my marriage have changed significantly, and I know that my wife has been in a holding pattern waiting for the other shoe to drop, and I have been so scared of the future and the loss of my wife (even though she says that she still wants to be in my life) I guess that I am too scared to take the leap. So I sit here frozen in time just existing. Stuff happens.
I have been going to a counselor for that last three years, and I also go to a PFLAG meeting once a month, This is great as this group has a lot to transsexuals and it helps a lot. I have even gotten to the point that If I need to transition I need to get out and out in public so yesterday (I travel about an hour and half to counselor and PFLAG) so I get to town have to go potty said heck with it and stooped at a convince store went right in and used the correct potty then bought a pack of gum. After my counselor session I went right in to jimmy johns bought supper left and went to park and ate it. The world did not end. If it did I did not get the memo and nobody will read this then anyway.
I guess I am saying that I am getting tired of GD, I am getting worn down. I am ready to change. The GD will never go away. I feel like that my whole life has been a sham because I have held people at arms length. I have never really been able to really become a friend because I have kept the gender walled off, boxed up, not letting anybody into my life, I am worn out and tired and fed up. I give up but am also too scared to take the final leap. How the hell do I do this?