Like Freddy, I started with a "fetish" for tight clothing too. I still very much enjoy leotards and unitards. If you like wearing anything that is ladies clothing, I think that's enough to join the CD club. BTW, I've never been particularly athletic, but I have been taking ballet classes for four years now, which has given me a good work out, toned my body, and given me an excuse to wear tights once a week.