a newbie, anybody from new zealand?

[jack-sparrow]

hello

just came across this site and was delighted to see a safe place to discuss such things as crossdressing. anyways i thought i'd ask in general terms why do some guys choose to crossdress?

i used to crossdress a few years ago but when i realised i had little privacy for it i stopped, though it wasn't the full thing with wigs, heels, nails, necklaces, bracelets etc. i was only interested in the lingerie side, like corsets and stockings, bustiers too...

the other question that i put forward is that is it better to crossdress for a sexual fetish as some do or is it better to crossdress for some emotional reason? i did it myself for the sexual nature of it, i have an huge appreciation for the softer and silky garments and i believe this is what makes these things beautiful, pretty and that they express femininity, obviously masculine clothing does not do this.

i guess some cd's hate that the mainstream thinks that being a cd is just to get your rocks off and that the only reason to wear lingerie or other articles of feminine clothing is purely for a sexual experience and nothing else.

i recently rediscovered an urge to cd for the first time in years although im not sure what has brought this on, i think i feel a yearning for some connection to a woman (i have not had a relationship with a woman for several years) but also the feeling of being intimately desired by someone and being a single heterosexual male in his 20's is hard enough.

one thing that is different from before is that i feel that i want to try the whole experience of what it is to be a cd, obviously not walk around as a cd but i wanna know what it feels like to be fully dressed in private, so wig, make up, heels and whatever else...that feeling of being desired and adored, even if it just me that desires my girlyness

the last thing i want to ask, is that is there anybody from new zealand as i'd like to maybe get in touch but if not then im just as happy to contact anybody else, i hope my post wasn't too long and boring but some insight would really help me

mawh

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Mawh, Welcome to our forum , When you are here you are home.

There are as many reasons to dress as there are Crossdressers to dress.

[Beverley Sims]

You have the same feelings as the rest of us and yes there are a few very active Kiwis on this forum.
Welcome to the forum. Your post is likely to get moved as it is an introduction.

[jack-sparrow]

thats very pleasing to know, hopefully i can feel at home here with a few people from around the way...i look forward to what this site has to offer and its community of understanding people

[Rachelakld]

And the good thing about living here - the freedom to be whoever we want to be

[GaleWarning]

Another good thing ... the weather seldom gets too warm, so CDing is not a seasonal activity.

[Rachelakld]

Not sure about that Gale, last summer I was down to bra, G, and shoe string dress and my makeup was melting off at my 10am brunch outings. Ended up having to hit the shopping malls if I was out much after 11am to cool down

[thechic]

Hi there just thought I would say hi from Napier, you will find there's many reasons why we crossdress

[jack-sparrow]

im surprised to see a few more kiwis on here, great to hear from more people..im from auckland

i haven't seen the threads as of yet that discuss the issue or reasons to crossdress but hopefully the information will go a long way. i was out today doing a few things and was around downtown auckland, as im walking around im noticing the things women wear and just taking it in, appreciating the effort they put in to look feminine and pretty....its really nice to see although in a small confession i would like to look as pretty and as good as them

[KiwiKate]

Hey Jack welcome.Yeah there are definitely a few of us around.I'm from Napier also.All the best.

[Toni in nz]

Hi,
From Auckland, good to see another NZ'r Here.
Welcome to the forum I'm a newbie too here and happy I found it as there is alot of porn rubbish out there and this place is great.

Toni.

[jack-sparrow]

Its great to see a few more kiwis on here, particularly a fellow aucklander...Welcome Toni, hope you enjoy the site as much as I do

[JenniferZ]

I think problems arise when rules are written. For me - be who you want to be. I like being fully dressed, however I also like wearing just panties and stockings and maybe shoes. Whatever it feels like at the moment. If you like it, do it.

Jennifer.

[Requal Jo]

While I am not from "The Land of the Long White Cloud" I am a neighbour from across the "ditch". Welcome to the forum Jack-Sparrow.