I haven't been on much as I recently told my girlfirend the extent of my crossdressing. She reacted pretty much as I expected.
Since I told her our relation ship has pretty much become one sided. I am trying to adhere to her requests to make it as easy as possible on her, hence why I haven't been on this site much, but she has been looking at my computer history and checking my phone.
All she does anymore is call me a liar.
She feels I have been hiding this from her for our entire relationship, although I didn't really look at it that way.
I crossdressed in my last relationship and had a very supportive girlfriend. I miss that often, but with the way that relationship ended I had gotten rid of everything and decided I didn't want to dress anymore as it had caused me so many problems. My current girlfriend knew of this.
I had gone about 3 years without dressing. I will admit I thought about it occasionally, but I never acted on it. A few months ago I started dressing in private when my girlfriend was at work. I hid this from her a matter of months before coming partially clean telling her I was only wearing panties. I wanted to tell her everything, but as I started telling her I could see how much she was starting to hate me.
I shut down and hid the rest. The shorts and shirts and, as she put it, worst of all bras. I didn't want to hide it. I wanted to be able to tell her everything. Then a few weeks later I came completely clean... Albeit at her angry request.
She keeps telling me she doesn't want me to talk to anyone else but her about this, yet when I try to talk to her she calls me gay and berates me.
I need someone to talk to about this. I crave so badly to have someone to let everything out to that will understand and not make fun of me for it.
I have no friends I can confide in that would be open to this sort of thing or that I feel comfortable talking about this with. I'm so afraid of talking to my friends and be judged or worse lose them as my friends to tell them.
I have been dealing with so much outside of just crossdressing, between losing family members and being sued all recently... I feel I am losing every bit of control and happiness in my life. And the worst part is all this is making my urge to crossdress even stronger.
I would love to call this the best part of it all, but with the fact that it's only making me feel more and more lonely, I can't think of it that way right now.
I feel so alone with no one to talk. I wish I had anyone to go to about all this instead of turning to the internet, but I am so upset and can't hold it all in anymore.
At the same time I feel sexier when dressed than ever, and just want to dress all the time and even imagine going out or doing other things while dressed.
At this point I am up for chatting with anyone, but I live in northern NJ and if there's anyone nearby who might want to actually meet up at some point. I could really use it...