I have a gay friend in LA who commented that Halloween is when all the cross dressers come out. If they really though they were women, why would they use that for a Halloween costume? Very valid point. If we are attempting to be ourselves, then we wouldn't consider that a costume. While I know many who do not yet have the confidence to go out pretty, can do so on Halloween, I would like to challenge them to not dress as a woman, but dress as a character that a woman would. Such as ballerina, pirate wench, Disney princess, female zombie etc. Don't dress as the girl next door. I agree, if your not wishing to come out, many will definitely wonder.