RD, you break it down pertty well. If you're no longer attracted to the man when he's not en femme, then it wasn't the man you were attracted to, but something else. You suggest it's the act of CDing. While the act of CDing has always been interesting to me, I am more interested in...and attracted to...the finished product of the act of CDing. I'm attracted to beauty, whether GG or CDer. It's a visual thing and removed from the person, personality, sex, or gender beneath. Those things that I find glamorous, pretty, sexy, exciting, and arousing in GG's I see the same way in CDers. Yes, I'm pretty superficial about CDing.