Annoying things girls do

[Tawne]

Hi,

I would like to hear from everyone M or F about your experiences in life where you have witnessed a girl doing something you found annoying, irritating or just wrong. GGs you are welcome to post annoying things for women and men.

Also I'd like to know from your response or from other answers given in this thread, if you have adopted any of these traits when you are "en femme".

Did it grow on you by accident or on purpose?
Has your perspective changed since you adopted it when experience others doing it since?

Hope it's not confusing!

[Kate Simmons]

Well, there's the old "I told you so" but what annoys us so much about that is they are usually right.Then there is "By the way..." Hoo boy, we know we are in deep poop with that one. Funny thing is en femme, I figure I have the "editorial license" to use them myself. Go figure!

[stephNE]

My wife seems to like moving my stuff around. This is really annoying! I have not (and will not) adopt this behavior.

[Briana90802]

I think the most annoying thing girls do is complain about being a girl. Especially about their breasts. Ahhhh, they're so lucky.

[NicoleScott]

Championship game, third and goal, 24 seconds and no time-outs left.

"We need to talk. Now."

[Candice Mae]

I think the most annoying thing girls do is complain about being a girl. Especially about their breasts. Ahhhh, they're so lucky.

If you've ever had sore breasts you would complain too, the smallest bump can hurt like hell. Oddly a cabbage leaf in your bra does wonders.

[Frédérique]

I would like to hear from everyone M or F about your experiences in life where you have witnessed a girl doing something you found annoying, irritating or just wrong.

I don’t know whether I DARE enough to reply…

I was watching a TV show about sushi the other day. Male sushi chefs were diligently learning their art, serious as all get-out, at a special culinary school. Skip over to someone’s house in Southern California, where a woman was teaching a gaggle of women how to make sushi. At the former it was near-reverent silence, while the latter was a giggle-fest, akin to a Tupperware Party. It was a bit annoying and irritating, but not really wrong. I came to the conclusion that M and F are in different “spaces” altogether – I was thinking that as I stood up and shut the TV OFF…

Based on this glimpse of female behavior, I won’t be learning to laugh inappropriately any time soon, even though I may stick out for NOT doing so…

[ReineD]

My very typical answer is that annoying things are not gendered and we put up with annoying things based on two factors: the degree of annoyance and our capacity for patience.

Both men and women can be self-centered and place themselves first with little consideration to their partner, and both can be pessimistic about certain things, and both can be immature.

Also, when groups of people are together, if their collective behaviors are not bothersome to themselves but bothersome to an onlooker such as a member of the opposite sex, than he or she need not participate.

[Kathryn Martin]

Male sushi chefs were diligently learning their art, serious as all get-out, at a special culinary school. Skip over to someone’s house in Southern California, where a woman was teaching a gaggle of women how to make sushi. At the former it was near-reverent silence, while the latter was a giggle-fest, akin to a Tupperware Party. It was a bit annoying and irritating, but not really wrong. I came to the conclusion that M and F are in different “spaces” altogether – I was thinking that as I stood up and shut the TV OFF

One was an educational event the other one was a social event with an educational component. It's the difference between focusing and relating.

[paulaprimo]

what sent me packing was when my ex would put some article of clothing on and look totally hot in it, then ask me what i thought,
and when i would tell her she looks awesome in it, her reply would be "no i don't, why are you lying to me"

[audreyinalbany]

why is it the man's responsibility to put the toilet seat down and not the woman's to put it up?

[Tamara Croft]

One thing that get's on my nerves is women who stand in the middle of the isle at Tesco chatting and not shopping, or women with pushchairs who think they have right of way and don't seem to know how to move, so you end up walking on the road...

[Angie G]

My wife lets things go forever but expects me to do things now. One thing I come to do is always sit when using the powder room.
Angie

[Beverley Sims]

Girls do so many annoying things I really wonder why I have this desire to emulate one.

[NV Susan]

I think the most annoying thing girls do is use foul language.....I hate four letter words coming out of the mouth of a girl, {I know we can all slip sometimes}. I try never to use this language even in guy mode.

[Kate Simmons]

Girls do so many annoying things I really wonder why I have this desire to emulate one.

You are braver than I am with that comment Bev.

[stephNE]

"We need to talk" is one thing,
but when the next line is "lets not do it here, lets go on the Maury show", then you are really in trouble.

[Tracii G]

The ONE thing that always ticked me off is when my first ex would say "if you don't know then I'm not telling you".
It would always come up when she would be pissed at me for God knows what and I asked what was the matter and why was she upset.
Later I figured out it was a ploy to start an argument.
My second ex tried it I said hold on I don't play that game if you are mad just tell me why.
I knew my chances of winning the argument were slim to none.
Sooo glad I'm not with either of them now.

[robindee36]

Sorry Tawne, I don't get annoyed, irritated or angry. Just motoring through live being Happy, Happy, Happy.

It is a real bummer to have to endure these negatives. I just refuse to participate any longer.

Hugs, Robin

[NicoleScott]

Both Leslie and Stephanie are right. It was my ex-wife that said "We need to talk".
What happened with Maury? He used to have a fairly respectable show. Money, probably.

[kimdl93]

Nah, not gonna take the bait. Sorry.

[~Joanne~]

I hate when GG's bitch about wearing pantyhose and No, I haven't adopted that annoyance lol My favorite is "you should wear some and see what I mean" which I have and still don't.

The thing that my SO says they annoys me the most is when she starts a conversation with "I have some bad news......" because she never starts one with any good news lol

[Deedee Skyblue]

I hate it when I'm right about something, and a woman gets mad at me because I am right. And, when we agree on something and she gets mad at me because I agree with her.

Deedee

[TheMissus]

I never do anything annoying

[Babette]

I find it hard to generalize annoying things that GGs do. There are individuals, both male and female, that have done things which annoyed me. That is saying a lot when considering I'm fairly tolerant and slow to be irritated.

Babette