What is it that makes someone who was born with a female body brave enough to venture out and buy something that is meant for a male, while someone who was born with a male body becomes a wreck when confronted with the concept of buying something that is meant for a female?
Surely, those who were born male are the superior gender? Are we not the alpha male? Are we not the guiding force of the family?
Or are we just a bunch of snivelling wimps?
I know a number of ‘real’ men, who love nothing more than playing rugby on Saturdays and think it has been a great game when they end up covered in blood (preferably their own); who think nothing of drinking 20 pints of larger on a Saturday night and then speeding home to watch the football on telly; who boast of all the ‘birds’ that they have ‘shagged’; but who become a quivering wreck on the floor when their wives/partners ask them to go to Tesco to buy a pair of tights.
One of the main quotes that always appear on television programmes around St. Valentines day or Christmas, when asking a man if he would buy something pretty for his wife/partner is that ‘the shop assistant might think it is for me’. Well, I have got news for you, honey – if you are reading this, the chances are that it IS for you!
So, I ask the question again – why are we so scared of buying woman’s clothing and accessories? In this day and age, I am sure that the people who work in shops have seen it all before and would turn a blind eye to us. I am even more sure of the fact that money talks and shop assistants will listen to it. Why do you feel the need to let your palms get sweaty and your voice to quaver when making a purchase? “It’s not for me, it’s for my sister’ is an excuse most of us have used in the past, but why not be honest. Why not just say ‘It’s for me – I’m a crossdrsser’.
Experience has shown me that the response you are likely to get is more along the lines of ‘Am I bovvered? That’s £14.99’ rather than ‘Bloody pervert. Hey Jane, call the police. I’ve got one of those here’.
Forget your nerves; don’t let fear get the best of you. Stand up and be proud of who and what you are. The more you get out there and are seen by the hoi-polloi, the more we will be accepted.
You mission for tomorrow is…hold your head up high, be proud and go and buy yourself something pretty!
All joking apart, and getting back to the original question – why are so many men scared of buying female clothes and accessories?