I used to panic when I would go shopping for my femme self. I grew up around alot of intolerant people... These days, I find that I don't care as much about what people might be thinking. It helps that there is a strong LBGT community where I live. Still, for specialty items, I shop online. And recently, I have learned how to make some of my own clothes. This is helpful, as my body can't always pull off something I find at the mall... ;P