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    The "Ominous' Buldge

    Looking for the opinions of the gurls here on the buldge that occurs when we gurls are wearing tighter dresses and skirts and haven't tucked fully or at all. I know those photos not allowed here which I only somewhat agree with as that showing certainly isn't pervert or nasty. I don't always tuck and as a CD I love that I have male genitals and don't always see the need to tuck them away unless I'm going out in public. If you're going through the full transition I can understand but as a crossdresser by definition we don't want our family jewels taken away so sometimes it's nice to see how fem we can be and still have a little tasteful bulge in our skirts. Please gurls what's your opinion.... I'd post a tasteful photo but it would be deleted....

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    Tight undies usually help to mask anything for me. The image I'm looking for is a female. I believe bulges were illuminated here for a reason long ago. Maybe complaints of going OTT. No matter, no one is perfect. My respect for others leads me to believe that not everyone wants to see those things (I could do without the panty shots too but that's my PO). At your home you can do what you like, myself I simply treat the internet as a public place and try to present as a woman.

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    I respect if you like that sort of thing but it's not what i'm interested in at all :P
    I prefer to hide my bulge entirely, and since i'm not into men I don't really want to see all of that c: But whatever floats your boat!

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    I try to separate my genders as completely as possible both for me and my wife who is completely heterosexual. She would not appreciate Tina with a bulge. When presenting as male publicly she still would prefer I not show off that which is committed to her. Makes sense to me.

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    This thread is hilarious! I needed something to make me smile today. BTW I've had the displeasure of seeing those bulges in pictures before they've been deleted here, it's not very girlie at all.

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    Oh Marleena I could tell you stories.. We'll not go into that here Mink you crack me up. You too Lori

    The very first thing I saw here in someone's avie wasn't just a bulge but there was no moderation at that time. Imagine how bad it could have gotten had none taken the ropes and cleaned things up? There's lots of sites for 'more' (yeah movies too). Now not everyone feels like a woman inside as they have stated in other threads, some CD for reasons that are pretty sexual, and that's fine. But here is not the place to show off such "extremities". And while I don't like men in the least, I still could agree with the size queens but that was another discussion that started bulging and got well out of hand..

    It's better here now

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    The only bulge I may show is what can appear to be a baby bump.
    That becomes a form of art.
    Other bulges as you describe are all part of the art of suppression.
    A bulge as you describe is not tasteful in my view.
    If any one has useful comments get in now I can't see this thread being open for long.
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    What's a baby bump in your opinion Beverly.... I'm not advocating anything here and certainly not a huge bump. But how does a baby bump become a form of art. Please explain that one.

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    I want to appear as feminine as possible and do not want any type of bulge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacyfem View Post
    What's a baby bump in your opinion Beverly.... I'm not advocating anything here and certainly not a huge bump. But how does a baby bump become a form of art. Please explain that one.
    If you have a flat stomach you need a little padding to show that you may be pregnant.
    I believe it is called a baby bump these days.
    Years ago I posed as a pregnant woman boarding a street car to see if I could get a seat.
    I consider dressing well and passing is an art form.
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    and beauty will follow.

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    I'd prefer not to see bulges, 'Hear that, Anthony Wiener?'

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    I do both, if in public at times I want to look clay I'll tuck but for dressing and feeling sexy, I enjoy the bulge, it can be viewed as raunchy but a lot of us on here are guys dressed like women, not trying to be women, so I think either way is great but presumably think you have to be comfortable with yourself to have the bulge showing.
    So, I'm just a guy, who likes looking like a girl, why is that so wrong?

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    Quote Originally Posted by georgia20 View Post
    I do both, if in public at times I want to look clay I'll tuck but for dressing and feeling sexy, I enjoy the bulge, it can be viewed as raunchy but a lot of us on here are guys dressed like women, not trying to be women, so I think either way is great but presumably think you have to be comfortable with yourself to have the bulge showing.
    Georgia,

    Tucking is the act of trying to remove most if not all "bulge" that results from the male testicles and penis. So, the testicles are coaxed into a couple of small cavities that helps hide most of their size and the penis is pulled and down and back between the legs and secured with tight fitting undergarment or in some techniques with tape. For more than you ever wanted to know about tucking find the sticky thread "The Art of Tucking". Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AllieSF View Post
    Georgia,

    Tucking is the act of trying to remove most if not all "bulge" that results from the male testicles and penis. So, the testicles are coaxed into a couple of small cavities that helps hide most of their size and the penis is pulled and down and back between the legs and secured with tight fitting undergarment or in some techniques with tape. For more than you ever wanted to know about tucking find the sticky thread "The Art of Tucking". Good luck.
    I don't ever remember asking what it was but OK then..... Just saying I do both, not a dictionary definition of it, just because some of us are young does not mean we don't understand things. I think this is why I rarely post on here, because each time I see someone being attacked because what one cross dresser does goes against what the majority sees fit. JMHO, take it for what is worth
    So, I'm just a guy, who likes looking like a girl, why is that so wrong?

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    There was always a bit of a gender-bending thrill in letting my maleness show in a dainty little pair of panties, or under a tight skirt, but I totally understand not allowing pictures of that kind to be posted here. And for the ultimate kick of CDing, I needed to tuck. I loved the female look of that part of my body, no matter what I was wearing, when en femme.

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    when i'm dressed up it is obvious that i'm a man in a dress/skirt, so I don't really try to hide my bulge but I don't put out for display either. if it's too pronounced I will try to pack it away more. sometimes it's not easy to pack away.

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    I always wear a pantygirdle, which works well, to prevent any bulge. Is this the new "Battle Of The Bulge?"

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    I always hide that thing when dressed, the only bulges women's clothes should have should be two of them just below the shoulders
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    It's a valid comment if you ask me.

    Even though I'm fully transitioned and apparently pretty damn passable as of late, I did have a kooky idea while perusing the Folsom Street Fair last weekend. Since it is a huge fetish event and since I am still pre-op, I thought about re-configuring my junk so I would show a bit of a bulge in my super tight jeans. Now, for me it wouldn't be much of one since I don't have testicles anymore but I think it would be fun since the rest of my body has had quite a bit of work done. There's not too many places where you can let your freak flag fly like that.

    The most likely reason this topic is discouraged is because people don't know how to talk about things like adults. Or the hardcore CD's will throw a fit if you don't hate your junk. Either way, it's a sensitive area around here and the mods don't want to be glued to their computers babysitting a single thread.
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    Right on Melissa....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Badtranny View Post
    It's a valid comment if you ask me.

    Even though I'm fully transitioned and apparently pretty damn passable as of late, I did have a kooky idea while perusing the Folsom Street Fair last weekend. Since it is a huge fetish event and since I am still pre-op, I thought about re-configuring my junk so I would show a bit of a bulge in my super tight jeans. Now, for me it wouldn't be much of one since I don't have testicles anymore but I think it would be fun since the rest of my body has had quite a bit of work done. There's not too many places where you can let your freak flag fly like that.

    The most likely reason this topic is discouraged is because people don't know how to talk about things like adults. Or the hardcore CD's will throw a fit if you don't hate your junk. Either way, it's a sensitive area around here and the mods don't want to be glued to their computers babysitting a single thread.
    hi bad tranny, i was at the folsom street fair (in drab). wish I knew to look for you. always wanted to meet a true tranny near me.

    I try to present as a proper female everytime i dress. A bulge will definitely not look proper. to conceal my bulge, I tuck it tight between my legs and wear tighter panties. On some occasions, I use bandages (skin tone) and tape it in place and use my scrotum skin and tape them together to make lips. I looks good in the mirror. I also tried 3m glue and it works great until i take hot shower, then it falls apart.

    But a bulge will ruin you look, but then if it's a fetish thing, then show it off.
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    Oh! Badtranny you are so right on as there are an awful lot of stuff cd's here that don't want to talk about their junk and in that they are cd's we all have junk. Good luck with your full transition and enjoy your knew life as a woman....

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    i think putting your bulge on display when presenting male or female sends out a pretty distinct message (but especially when dressed fem). i also think that doing it while dressed fem is not going to be viewed by others as tasteful regardless of your intentions in allowing it to be seen... if i ever go out in public presenting as female i will be looking to fly below the radar or possibly be viewed as an attractive female in some way and not as a man who craves attention and disregards what other people view as acceptable public appearance, which is how i think people would view someone in female attire bulging...

    *i just saw Melissa's post and i will amend my answer to say that i see no problem with bulging at in a venue like a fetish fair or at a club or something like that; i wouldn't think it would be distasteful in that context, however, in a regular setting like the supermarket or mall or something i personally think its going to get too much negative attention so i personally would chose not to show it there
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    I personally try to get my bulge as far gone as possible. But I consider myself transgender so there are quite a few days where I want to be a woman. On those days I want it gone, and those are the days I typically dress as well. So while I'm still not convinced I want to get rid of what makes the bulge, when I dress I don't want to see it.
    Finally decided on a name! Lindsey

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    If I am going to try my best to emulate a woman I'm going to do my best to eliminate the bulge. I do have panty girdles that I wear with sheath dresses. Sheath dresses are the slimmest I have and they do not cling to the body. I do find stuffing the bulge leads to some discomfort. I prefer to wear an empire waist or wrap dress because of the potential bulge and because those styles are more forgiving to the less than ideal waist (42-38-38).

    When I was a teenager (1960's) as a male I did not stuff a sock into my pants to create the illusion of having a monster.

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