Honestly I am feeling pretty frustrated with my appearance/presentation both when I dress and also day-to-day and I could use some advice as to where a good place to start would be. One thing I have been really focusing on is losing weight and I have been doing a good job exercising and eating better, but there isn't much immediate return on that... I also have a very limited amount of funds for buying new things right now so I was thinking of looking for some women's tees that I could wear in male mode, but would make me feel like I was making a slight move away from a totally manly outfit every day--what do other's do and try to think about when they are feeling discouraged with where there femininity is at? In the past this is when I have purged/tried to suppress these feelings and that led to a lot of depression... I know I am not going to do that anymore, but this is kind of new to me so I would love some advice, especially if you have experienced similar feelings... thanks.
