Yes, this again. I'm pretty sure some (trans-)women would also like to know this:
How do you (cross-dressing individuals like myself*) know how and when you feel feminine, girly or whatever other word you like to use to describe it?
I mean, I know when I look feminine, even if it isn't necessarily 'female'. I know when I feel good, like when I'm watching a great film or reading a great book. I know when I feel optimistic about my appearance, which may also be the case when I dress nicely as a man. But I don't think I ever had this overwhelming feeling of femininity.
Is there a book on feminine feelings for men? Do you feel feminine when you have the sudden urge to make a sandwich? What is this wizardry?
And, perhaps most importantly, what role does feminine attire like panties have? Are they acting like some kind of conduit for the mystical spiritual feminine forces?
* This is not a specific posting request, feel free to contribute if you don't consider yourself a cross-dressing individual.