The other night my wife wanted to do her summer winter cloths change over and asked me to model for her to see what I could have if I wanted it or if she keeps it for next summer. Some times before a wedding or a party she will ask me to try on her dress she plans on wearing so she could get a different prospective of the dress when I am wearing it. After modelling about twenty dresses I sat on the bed and she asked me if I was tired of trying on the dresses, I told her if she was kidding I could do this all day. Lately she has been going threw some minor medical problems and feels she's starting to get older and with that she asked me if something happened to her or our relationship if I would change anything with the dressing, if I would tell the kids or if I would change anything and to be honest. I told her I am very happy the way it is now, but I don't want to maybe say something that may change her opinion on the way things are now, it's been up to now I only answer the questions she asks. So I went for it, after all she wanted me to be honest, I told her I see no reason why the kids should have to know unless if it comes out by accident, and I would like to explore into it a little more, maybe find a social club or get on the horn on the forum
and see if I could maybe once a week meet up with some sisters for a drink or a night out. She was a bit surprised by that and asked me why I never told her that I wanted to do that, she didn't know I felt like that and thought I was happy the way it is. I told her I am happy the way it is and I love and respect her, and the same way I swore to our wedding vows I remained the same with when I told her about my dressing. I swore to her the three questions she asked, that I am not attracted to men, I don't plan on changing to a women and i will be very happy in the closet, but as the years have past my opinion has changed a bit but I would rather be with her like this and not with out her. She then said that I should explore into it more and the kids are older now and that I don't do anything for myself anymore, a few years ago I would golf or play hockey once a week, maybe now I could get out once a week and meet up and do what ever I want. I told her it is fine the way things are now and that I am fine as long as we are together. She told me how great the dress I was wearing looked on me and that if I want it I could have it, and if I want to get out once a week it would be fine with her. I don't know if it is the way she is feeling lately or if she is being honest and if I should approach this or maybe just be happy the way it's been up to now and not maybe rock the boat. We all want more and to take things to the next level, I read here about the wife's who are totally against the dressing or the guys who have been in hiding all there lives and maybe just consider myself lucky and leave things the way they are. I would like the opinion of my friends here, what would you do? leave it alone or go for it now that the light is green.