Ok So I feel like a fool!
We recently put a security system in the house. Part of the system was a camra so we could watch the Dog.
Yesterday I was working form home so i decided to get dressed up. I spent the mid moring in a nice silk short and demi bra set and my nice satin robe. In the afternoon I changed into skirt and cami with my red lacy bra and a nice pair of black knee high stockings with lace at the top. No wig(i have yet to be abel to get one) and no makeup.
I was workign away and feeling like i needed a break so i went downstairs and walked right past the camra not even relizing it.
When my wife got home she asked me right out about it. As luck would have it she was checking the dog right at the same itme i was walkignto the kitchen.... OPPS!
As you can most likely extrapolate from this my wife does not know that I dress and has never met Heather.
She came home and asked me about it right away. I didnt know what to say so I said i was working on a holloween outfit. She took that answer and accepted it and said "I knew it was something like that." She also said she didnt know what to think at 1st and didnt understand what i was wearing... She brought it up a few times over the night and one fo the last things she said was "You did that all by yourself... How come you have deprived me of the joy and the fun i would have had of making you look right?" She also said things like if you are a crossdresser you shoud have told me before we got married. She wasnt pissed off and wasnt upset(or at least didnt show it) but i could tell she was trying to make me tell her I was a crossdresser and i just couldnt do that. There was no argument and no hard feelings and we pretty much laughed it off for the most part.
Advice anyone? I am not really ready to have heather hang out wiht my wife but i feel really bad about keeping that part of me secret.
I think that over time i would have said something to her. I told my 1st long time girlfriend i like to crossdress and dressed in a nice little satin babydoll with her but she didnt like it so i never ever told anyother girl i was with about me.
THoughts? Advice? How should i play this? Should I tel her i do enjoy dressing and see what she says or should i jsut play it down as i did?
It always seemd to be she would be ver un-accpeting of CDers and such.