Another lecture from the pink fog. I'll turn the tables on you. Am I the one with the problem? Have you ever considered the problem lies with the person we are interacting with? Why do so many wives cringe at the thought their husbands like to wear female clothing? Why do school administrators have a crisis on their hands when a male teacher shows up dressed as a woman? Why do the guys in the tavern parking lot yell dispersions at you when you pass by? Is it because I have a problem with my cross dressing?
We live in the real world. I know some gays and lesbians. They do not hide in the closet anymore, but, the vast majority of gays and lesbians do not run around with a sign saying "I'm gay" or "I'm a lesbian." Maybe, it's just a privacy thing.
I know many men who go to chick flicks with their wives. I know many men who do a lot of the baking and cooking. Or the laundry. They do all the domestic chores. They are not cross dressers. It's a chore that needs to be done. Actually, in society it is the woman who needs to assert herself in the man's world. That's where the bias resides. Some of it is self imposed. The world is changing. Unfortunately, I do not shave my legs which are almost void of hair anyway, but, maybe I should shave my arms. Maybe I should wear my wig rather than a male rug. Maybe I should wear one of my dresses, heels and hosiery when I shop. I just don't because I do not want to draw attention to the viewer unfounded bias and embarrass them.
I don't have a problem. They have the problem.