Ria's First Time at University

[cdmcconnell84]

Hi Ria!
It probably makes me a terrible ally, and I really want to be supportive to all the other gurls out there... but mostly your story just made me jealous!
I mean, of course I'm really happy for you, but really I wish I knew a few local young gurls who I could hang out with, because maybe then some of their awesome confidence and cuteness would rub of on me!
I want you to know though that your story is another little boost in my own struggle to figure out just what I want out of my own life between a mix of muddled genderedness. If I'm this jealous of your tale, I guess it tells me I'm not getting out there enough myself!
So thanks for the kick in the pants!
~ Caleigh

[xdressed]

Haha don't worry Caleigh, when I first joined here I was far more insecure and jealous than I am now, but it also helped to inspire me into the person I am today. I only know one other person locally who crossdresses, and he's a bit annoying and arrogant, and I know no one round here who's non-binary or trans although I have met a few from further afield before.

I recommend you take some steps to getting out there yourself, people will surprise you ^_^

[EllieOPKS]

Ria, you look great in your profile pic and it sounds like you are surrounded with open minded people so you have a great luxury of being yourself publicly. An important item for me to take away from your story is a new name for the toilet or bathroom or mens and womens rooms - LOO! It's now my favorite descriptive word . Just one question, do you pronounce that like low or like LU?
Ellie - pronounced " L _ E "

[xdressed]

Haha, it's pronounced Lu. We also call the toilet a bog sometimes if we're feeling vulgar lol. At the risk of derailing my own thread, I've never understood why you sometimes call it a bathroom in America, there's no bath in there

[reb.femme]

Haha, it's pronounced Lu. We also call the toilet a bog sometimes if we're feeling vulgar lol. At the risk of derailing my own thread, I've never understood why you sometimes call it a bathroom in America, there's no bath in there

Actually, we have a lot more base descriptions for said place . Never understood restroom either. The last place I would lay down. Now, I'll stop derailing the thread.

Rebecca

[xdressed]

Yeah bog is far from the worst name we have for it, but the others aren't very ladylike lol