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    A lady in the making..... Erica Marie's Avatar
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    Are you happy being a guy?

    How many people here can honestly say they are happy blending their male/female selves?

    For me, not so sure. To a point maybe it would be better if there were some in between gender.
    Erica

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    I know what you mean. There are things that I would like to keep as permanent (hair, nails, shoes, etc.) but society just isn't ready for us yet.

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    Not too much no o3o
    I'm more or less just used to it now. I get to express myself through crossdressing and feminize myself so that I just look effeminate as a male o3o I think transitioning would be nice but at the same time I don't think I would be able to deal with all of the things that I would have to go through if I chose to. My girlfriend makes me happy being who I am and I can have extended amounts of time being fine with it so quite honestly I'm still confused about it. I'm happier crossdressed, and I identify as a girl. The one thing that makes it better for me is that even if I do or don't transition I know who I am and I will always know and so will the people around me who are close to me. So in a way i'm treated as a girl, not by everyone but by those who matter c:

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    I'm happy with being a guy. I like my guy hobbies and friends and I have a wonderful family. I love being "Dad."

    I just get frustrated being forced to be one way most of the time. If I could choose at will, I bet I wouldn't present as female as often as I think I would. I do REALLY like women's fashion though....
    "I want you all to call me Loretta." - The Life of Brian

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Laura View Post
    I'm happy with being a guy. I like my guy hobbies and friends and I have a wonderful family. I love being "Dad."

    I just get frustrated being forced to be one way most of the time. If I could choose at will, I bet I wouldn't present as female as often as I think I would. I do REALLY like women's fashion though....
    I couldnt have said it better myself. The grass is always greener on the other side. There are benefits on both sides so a balance is needed..Ellie

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    Based on the number of YouTube videos I have watched about transitioning, probably not all that happy as a male.
    If it was easy, everyone would be doing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Laura View Post
    I'm happy with being a guy. I like my guy hobbies and friends and I have a wonderful family. I love being "Dad."

    I just get frustrated being forced to be one way most of the time. If I could choose at will, I bet I wouldn't present as female as often as I think I would. I do REALLY like women's fashion though....
    Ms. Laura's quote from post #22 was exactly how I felt after reading the replies. Yet, I am reminded that, before I read the replies, post #23 was my first thought. Who am I?

    In the end, I'm drawn to crossdressing by the clothing. I look at clothing with lust, far more than I have even did with people, even in my most sexually active days.

    In reality, physically more powerful men still control the world.. I'd never have this degree of control in my life if I wasn't the male, white and physically fit. And getting ready in the morning, what a chore that would be.

    I'm happy as I am. I only wish the world was more tolerant.
    Last edited by Robbin_Sinclair; 11-04-2013 at 07:23 AM.

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    Yes, I'm happy being a guy. I don't really see any other choice but to be happy. I've often thought of what it would be like to be a woman, what my life would have been like, ect., but yes, I'm happy.
    Lisa

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    Part of me has been frustrated being a guy. The lifetime of no SO, the isolation, the agony of being sensitive like a girl, but being in a six foot six male body, of being rejected, having unrealistic expectations on my male self. But, also the isloation when dressed up as a lady. I am a loner.

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    Some times I am, but mostly I'm not
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    Yes I am! Admittedly having the chance to go into girl mode every once in a while contributes to happiness, but but it's only one aspect of me, not the whole.

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    Absolutley, otherwise I couldn't explore my feminine side. I like being able to go back and forth.

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    I am very happy as a guy. But when I dress I go all out and try to create the most female persona I can down to the smallest detail. Do I wish I could do it more often ? Yes ! Do I wish I could do the lexi thing when every I wanted ? Yes !
    But I would always want to keep Lexi separate and secret. And I don't think I would ever want to make the change full time

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    Quote Originally Posted by Khaleesi81 View Post
    Yes I am! Admittedly having the chance to go into girl mode every once in a while contributes to happiness, but but it's only one aspect of me, not the whole.
    This pretty much sums it up for me too!
    HUGS

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    I was happy being a GM up until I saw that dress when I was 4. From then on I wished I was born GG. Over the years, Renne has come and gone. She's now about 75% of my life and that other person who wears pants to go to work is 25%. If society was a little more advanced, I wouldn't mind being this half of one gender and half of another...

    Renne.....

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    For the most part, yes. While I sometimes wish that I could be more feminine, 90-95% of the time I like being a guy. There are lots of advantages, particularly in my career which is male dominated right now.

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    Im scared Im starting to like my female side more but i could never imagine going full time. Does this feeling pass as you dress and you get more used to it? Dont get me wrong I love dressing up the full nine but damn is it ever a commitment lol!

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    Almost as happy as being a girl.
    There are advantages from both sides.
    You see I like snogging girls.
    They are the best thing since sliced bread.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Yes, pretty much. Of course, I'd love more time as a girl but that's life!
    And as Bev says, there are advantages from both sides!

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    Great question. Honestly, I'm very happy being a guy. Because, well, my girl side is the secondary personality. But, my other world as a guy does things to make the female experience better. Like staying healthy and keeping everything fixed, including finances. And when I'm Carla, I feel well taken care of by Charles.
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    I have to function in my business in drab, but to be honest I'd rather do it as a girl....NOT going to happen in this lifetime! So Erica, let's just say I do what I have to do but much prefer the feminine side of me.
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    Let's just say I'm happy being myself along with all the associated aspects of that self. For myself it's more than JUST male or female.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Hi Erica, I think that I have the best of both worlds and I don't want to lose anything.
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

    I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !

    If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.

    Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!

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    Guy stuff like tools, motorcycles, welding, airplanes, boats, fixing cars, cussing, scratching, fondling my SO and more, tearing things apart, putting them back to gether, knowing how to wire up anything, building anything, being able to go anywhere anytime, grease and grit, the smell of gasoline and oil. Danged sure I like being a guy!

    AND regularly I get to be like a woman without any cramps, media pressure to be everything that they think I should be, not subject to mood swings and rampant emotions, enjoying my femininity with all it's faults. I sure like being a part time woman.

    Being a heterosxual male crossdresser is the best of all worlds to me. I am grateful to be just like I am.

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    Hi Erica,

    I have to say I enjoy being me whether I am in boy mode or girl mode. Both sides of me contribute directly to my whole and while I may choose to spend more time en femme or en male, I like both halves equally. Not wanting to sound to movie corny but "they complete me". As I continue my journey of self discovery, I am slowly realizing that once integrated and accepted both halves would be lonely without each other.

    Hugs

    Isha

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