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  1. 10-29-2013, 12:26 AM #1
    Candice Mae
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    Handing in my man card

    Over the last few months I've spent a lot of time in discovering you I am. And I've come to the conclusion that I'm no longer a man. Although I'm still male genetically, I no longer see my self as a man. I feel more confident and at peace with my self when presenting as a woman. Where I go from here in terms of transitioning is still to be decided, but I am starting to look into things for if I start.

    For now I'm handing in my man card, and starting a new chapter in my life. The changes will probably be slow, no one really knows about my female side. And I've got to be careful how and to who I reveal my self too.
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  2. 10-29-2013, 12:42 AM #2
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    Best wishes, Candice... don't let the turkeys get you down!
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  3. 10-29-2013, 12:58 AM #3
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    I hope things go well for you! I've done the same thing! My biggest regret is I waited so long to do so!
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  4. 10-29-2013, 01:00 AM #4
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    Best of luck Candice keep us posted on the journey.
  5. 10-29-2013, 10:26 PM #5
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    I never qualified for a man card in the first place. I still can't figure out how I became a father! I didn't think I COULD!

    The good news is that you are able to make this decision while you are young enough to really live the life you want. There may be hard days ahead, but a good gender therapist will be able to help you through those days, especially in the early stages.

    You are a beautiful woman, but even more important, never forget you are a beautiful PERSON! You have the right to make these choices and live the life you've wanted.

    I wish I had been able to find a group like this when I was in my early twenties. It would have saved me so much pain, suffering, and frustration. If I knew then, what I know today, I would have wanted to transition ASAP. Fortunately, treatments are safer now, and surgical techniques have improved radically - when you reach that stage. Hope you have a long and happy life, and that you will continue to share your experience, strength, and hope with as you transition.
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  6. 10-29-2013, 01:05 AM #6
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    Candice,
    You have been working on this for some time now, I wish you well.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.
  7. 10-29-2013, 01:34 AM #7
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    good for you, you are such a natural anyways...i wish you the best and good luck!
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  8. 10-30-2013, 12:55 AM #8
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    Candice, I wish you the best in your transition!!!
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  9. 10-29-2013, 01:41 AM #9
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    Best wishes for you future. Be strong and go with your heart.
  10. 10-30-2013, 05:38 AM #10
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    Candice,

    I wish you well on your journey. Just because you are choosing to live as a woman doesn't mean you have to hand in your man card. IMHO it takes a very big man to explore this side of who we are.

    Hugs

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  11. 10-29-2013, 08:22 AM #11
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    Congratulations, best wishes on your journey. You can only be who you are in your heart.
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  12. 10-29-2013, 09:14 AM #12
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    Congratulations, Good thoughts and wishes , for your journey hugs
    Follow your path.. For only you can decide, which way to go.
  13. 10-29-2013, 09:36 AM #13
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    Good luck girl , I wish you the best !
  14. 10-29-2013, 09:54 AM #14
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    best of luck dear!
  15. 10-29-2013, 10:12 AM #15
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    Candice, I'm sure that first step is a very scary one, but you have such an amazing presentation. I wish you the best with whatever you decide.

    Wendy
  16. 10-29-2013, 10:17 AM #16
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    Good Luck! You've got the looks sorted anyway!
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    Good luck Candice. I applaud your courage! It takes much strength to be who we are.
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    Good luck. You look wonderful.
  19. 10-29-2013, 04:51 PM #19
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    Candace,

    Good for you! Finally you are emerging from the stifling restrictions placed on men as far as clothing, grooming, and behavior.

    I am slowly emerging from those restrictions, and to add icing the the cake my wife tells me all the time that I am not a man!

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  20. 10-29-2013, 05:15 PM #20
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    Happy for you Candice, you're a natural beauty and will do well however far you take it. I wish you all the happiness and peace in life you seek. Keep up posted on you're journey.........K
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    Congrats girl, but be careful for sure, you sure did you have a mancard, you always look like a GG for sure, will be reading all your threads on how it goes, I only wish you the best girlfriend. hugs.
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    Years ago, I thought that I had a man-card but I was faking it. The truth was that I never had a man-card and therefore I didn't need to return one.
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    Best wishes on your journey, Candice. You've got a great start. Please keep us posted on your progress?
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  24. 10-29-2013, 07:43 PM #24
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    a man card? I never had one, I guess I never earned it
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    Congrats on having the courage to become the real you. Best wishes.
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