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    The non-GG next door.... Candice Mae's Avatar
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    Handing in my man card

    Over the last few months I've spent a lot of time in discovering you I am. And I've come to the conclusion that I'm no longer a man. Although I'm still male genetically, I no longer see my self as a man. I feel more confident and at peace with my self when presenting as a woman. Where I go from here in terms of transitioning is still to be decided, but I am starting to look into things for if I start.

    For now I'm handing in my man card, and starting a new chapter in my life. The changes will probably be slow, no one really knows about my female side. And I've got to be careful how and to who I reveal my self too.

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    Neither fish nor fowl Phydelia's Avatar
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    Best wishes, Candice... don't let the turkeys get you down!
    "You say, 'There's not a lot of me, left anymore- just leave it alone...'" (Tori Amos)

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    I hope things go well for you! I've done the same thing! My biggest regret is I waited so long to do so!
    If you don't like the way I'm livin', you just leave this long haired country girl alone:

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    Best of luck Candice keep us posted on the journey.
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    Candice,
    You have been working on this for some time now, I wish you well.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    good for you, you are such a natural anyways...i wish you the best and good luck!
    paula

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    Aspiring Member Alexis.j's Avatar
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    Best wishes for you future. Be strong and go with your heart.

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    Congratulations, best wishes on your journey. You can only be who you are in your heart.
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    Sigh, I always knew Christina Kay's Avatar
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    Congratulations, Good thoughts and wishes , for your journey hugs
    Follow your path.. For only you can decide, which way to go.

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    Good luck girl , I wish you the best !

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    Gender whatever Megan72's Avatar
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    best of luck dear!

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    Candice, I'm sure that first step is a very scary one, but you have such an amazing presentation. I wish you the best with whatever you decide.

    Wendy

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    Good Luck! You've got the looks sorted anyway!
    "Normal is what you get when you average out the weirdness that everybody has." Quote from my SO

    Normal is a setting on a washing machine, or another word for average.

    The fact that I wear a skirt as a male should not be taken as a comment on what you do, or do not wear, or how you wear it.

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    Adventuress Kate Simmons's Avatar
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    It's okay to hand in the "man card" at this point as you can always get it back if you want to Hon. Only after physical transition would that be impossible and too late. Good luck with being a woman my friend.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Good luck Candice. I applaud your courage! It takes much strength to be who we are.
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    Ususally in pantyhose JayeB's Avatar
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    Good luck. You look wonderful.

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    Candace,

    Good for you! Finally you are emerging from the stifling restrictions placed on men as far as clothing, grooming, and behavior.

    I am slowly emerging from those restrictions, and to add icing the the cake my wife tells me all the time that I am not a man!

    Johanna
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    Happy for you Candice, you're a natural beauty and will do well however far you take it. I wish you all the happiness and peace in life you seek. Keep up posted on you're journey.........K
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    Congrats girl, but be careful for sure, you sure did you have a mancard, you always look like a GG for sure, will be reading all your threads on how it goes, I only wish you the best girlfriend. hugs.
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    Years ago, I thought that I had a man-card but I was faking it. The truth was that I never had a man-card and therefore I didn't need to return one.
    You will become stronger in the ways of the Pink Fog. May the Pink Fog guide you and be with you now and forever.

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    between worlds... steftoday's Avatar
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    Best wishes on your journey, Candice. You've got a great start. Please keep us posted on your progress?
    When the answers escape us when we start to fade
    Remember who loved you and the ones who have stayed
    Cause my body will fail, but my soul will go on
    So don't you get lonely I'm right where you are

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    Silver Member Angela Campbell's Avatar
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    a man card? I never had one, I guess I never earned it
    All I ever wanted was to be a girl. Is that really asking too much?

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    Senior Member MissTee's Avatar
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    Congrats on having the courage to become the real you. Best wishes.

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    Candice, If I could look like you I don't think that I would have accepted my man card. Congrats and good luck in everything that you have to face on the road you have decided to follow.
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    Wishing you the BEST!!! You look INCREDIBLE!!!

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