This is for everyone, not just those that get out.
When you dress, do you dress in a style that makes you happy, do you dress to pass or is your goal to blend.
I myself prefer to pass, but I do have guy characteristics, so on the few journeys out that I have had so far, my best hope was to blend and not be a standout. If life was perfect and I could do everything just right Id prefer to pass as a gg