I recently bought L'Oreal Tickled Pink #165 and discovered that it's so close to my natural (Caucasian) lip color that I can wear it all the time when dressed as a man. I don't go out dressed as a woman anymore. I just enjoy knowing that I'm wearing lipstick. I also kept the Mary Kay Antique Rose lipstick from Tri-Ess days and wear it at home when I'm alone.