Everyone here seems to have a complete alter ego, that I never seemed to try to explore. I've never really tried using a female voice, or gave myself a female name. My girlfriend has asked if she should call me a different name when I dress, but I don't know what to choose, or if I even want to. My name is Pat so that could work either way anyway. I guess I'm not sure if or when or how far I want to take this. I mean the thought of going out is thrilling, but scary. Also I've seen people say you have to own it, and I guess I'm not really sure what exactly that means.