Just out of interest, how out of the closest do you consider yourself to be and how do you identify? Comparing a few different forums and trans groups I get the feeling that the further away your gender identity is from your gender assigned at birth the more out of the closet you're likely to eventually be, but I want to see if that idea actually rings true. For example I am currently half out. I'm out to my girlfriend, everybody at uni including staff and friends on the other courses, my parents, my band, a few of my girlfriends friends and a few of my other friends, with plans to tell my girlfriends immediate family in the christmas holiday's, but am not out to the rest of my family, any of my old school friends or drinking buddies or most of the people I know from being in a band (other bands, promoters etc). I also identify as Bi-Gender, essentially half and half so this seems to fit my theory quite well, how about you?