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    Finally went out dressed on my own!!

    After having a great christmas, doing lots of dressing up with my SO, I suppose I thought it's now or never been New Year's Eve, when I could get away with being dressed up. My SO did the whole makeover, from clothes to make up and hair, she dressed me up as an absolute ****, as the more over the top the clothes, the more I thought I could pull it off. It has to be the most scariest moment of my life actually walking out the front door and getting into the car. Anyone could have gone past or come out their door! After making it to the car (with 4" heels I might add), I drove off in search of a deserted corner shop to buy some cigarettes, this being proof when I got back that I had gone into a shop. I found the perfect place and plucked up the courage to get out and walk into the shop, not knowing what I would face. Once inside I immediately told the lady shop assistant that she must excuse the dress, made up for a party etc. etc. I told her this was a test to see if I could go to a party dressed up. She told me I looked good as she looked me up and down and told me to go and have a good time. A man in the shop gave me the once over and smiled!!

    I left the shop, cigarettes as proof, and drove home. Pheeeew!! I couldn't believe I'd done it. My SO was amazed and told me she was proud of me. It was the bravest this she had known me to do. I felt completely different, as if I'd crossed a line. I felt 10 times more confident to dress up, whereas normally I'm a wreck, thinking someone is going to turn up at the house.

    I won't be doing it again. I've done it now and don't feel the need to do it again. Plus, I don't think my SO could take any more!!

    Have enclosed a pic of my going out gear.
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    congrats to you !!

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    Awesome Katie!!!!! ...I tried the cigarette thing ..but chickened out .... my voice is low and it bugs me greatly when dressed ...maybe take a note and just pass it too the clerk ......nawwwww best quit smoking ..Nice Outfit !!!! great look

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    Quote Originally Posted by katie36
    I won't be doing it again. I've done it now and don't feel the need to do it again. Plus, I don't think my SO could take any more!!
    Want to bet?
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    [SIZE=3]Well done Katie and congratulations[/SIZE] But I find it hard to believe that you won't be doing it again
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    Congratulations on the big step, Katie, that's marvelous!!
    Time will tell whether it'll be the last time or not (it can become somewhat addictive you know). Either way, it's all good, and you've got the pics to prove it! Thanks for sharing your story, and btw, you're quite a looker.
    Hugs, Tammi

    p.s. I almost forgot to ask, does your SO dmake housecalls?
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    Quote Originally Posted by katie36
    It has to be the most scariest moment of my life actually walking out the front door and getting into the car.
    That's exactly how it was for me too It was like riding a rollercoster - scary and exciting at the same time.

    Quote Originally Posted by katie36
    My SO was amazed and told me she was proud of me.
    Me too! Marla was nearly as excited as me. Your SO sounds so cool!

    Quote Originally Posted by katie36
    I felt completely different, as if I'd crossed a line..........I won't be doing it again. I've done it now and don't feel the need to do it again.
    Errr....don't be so sure. I told Marla I only wanted to do it once before I die, but guess what happened? Maybe you'll be better than me. However, a successful en femme trip can be intoxicatingly addictive

    Good luck and enjoy life! Btw....you look awesome!
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    Let me add to what the others said about your statement that you've gone out and now you won't need to again. Just wait! Maybe we should start a pool on the forum as to the date when you have to go out dressed again.
    It's addicting, hun, and once you start it's like opening up the floodgates.
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    Please don't let me be the last post on this thread

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    Finally out dressed!

    I agree with Sherrie and others, THIS WON'T be your last time! You'll be out shopping for clothes before you know it. Have fun! The first time out is such a rush!

    Huggs, Renee

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    Smile Just once! I don't believe it!

    My congrats for going out femme you looked very passible to me. So, Where's the Party?

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    Well done Katie..you go girl!

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    Congratulations Katie, you look great! I admire your courage, I wish I had it.
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    Katie, you look great! I know the first time you do it the nerves really kick in. But now that you've actually gone out, the memory of the nervousness will begin to fade and the excitement that went along with going out will amplify. You will be out and about again - it's just a matter of time and opportunity.
    Phoebe

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    You did it once, don't give up now, live it.

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    Its like a drug!

    Seriously, I too just made my first trip out as Trish not to long ago. I absolutely loved it. Now I am making plans for a second trip cause I need more clothes(who dosen't). But the first was just a short trip for the next one I want to make it an all nighter and then build from there. It is very addictive. Congratulations on your accomplishments and give in and do it again it's fun.

    Have fun and great outfit!
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    Well done love

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    thanks for all your replies and great feedback ! i know deep down it wont be the last time i go out dressed, have given it much thought the last few days, and think my SO needs a break. still getting a buzz from it now.

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    Good for you Darling---you look fantastic by the way---and what all the girls said in the previous posts about it being addictive---is absolutly true---only next time you will find it much less nerve wracking. Janessa

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    Congrats on your first time out! ...as others have said you looked great in that outfit. Very pretty girl.

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    Oh no Katie you are just getting started.
    You have crossed that line and there's no turning back.
    You did a brave thing and now you are going to have more courage.
    The SO can adjust, you know.

    How can you possibly think that was the only time you will do that?

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    [SIZE="5"]Congrats! Excellent post, way to go girl!! And...yeah, my money's on you going out again, and soon too! Thanks for sharing your exciting news. Olivia

    ps. and of course everyone is correct-you do look great in the pic. O
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    Go Girl

    You'll be out again!

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    pics

    could someone tell me how to post my pic...sorry...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andrea202
    could someone tell me how to post my pic...sorry...
    Click on User CP (that means "control panel"), then on the next page, Edit Avatar (that's what they call an icon here). The picture can't be more than 125 pixels high or wide.

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    good for you huh
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