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    erica lynn stone erica12b's Avatar
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    Are they miss placed thoughts?

    Are they miss placed thoughts?


    I have always thought that as a cd I was bringing more to the table in a relationship. I could empathize more with her side and not be just a guy, I could share more and feel more express more with her, I AM be a complete person (whole person)

    As of today I have not even come close to finding a gf that wants a cd bf,
    AFTER my divorce I told my self I would not even try a relationship unless she knew about my cding first (upfront and out in the open) ex never knew and will not if I can help it, there are just not that many girls that want to date a cd

    I’m still taking the moral high ground but I’m starting to think I’m going to half to date then after a time fess up hand pray she will not out me and accepts Erica

    are my thoughts missplaced?
    I like my femself; it makes me feel more civilized, i think girltime should be a requirment for all kids.

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    Adventuress Kate Simmons's Avatar
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    I don't think so Hon, nor are they unreasonable. A lot has to do with the other person's confidence in herself. Anyway, I did exactly that and now have a GF who accepts me for who I am. Stranger things have happened.
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    When you date anyone, isn't part of the fun and interest in learning about each other? No one sits down on the first date only to unload every pet peeve and opinion they have. Cross dressing is a PART of you not ALL of you. The time to inform someone is when you believe things are getting serious. There is no magic number of dates where this happens but I am certain it is not a first date.

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    Not misplaced, but you have the order of disclosure reversed. There is no need or obligation to declare yourself a CDr at the outset. You are likely scaring off potential relationships by making that the first and foremost factor. I would be very confident in predicting that if you wait till you have met and gotten to know a woman before revealing this one thing about yourself, she'll be less likely to turn and run than if you spring it on her right away.
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

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    erica lynn stone erica12b's Avatar
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    Dating and then telling here has Built in problems how long to weight to tell, the dought on her part, of is that all? Just ask any cd who has not told wife or So.

    yet there are so many groups for girls to meet and date a cd , full of cds but no girls , where are they ?
    Last edited by erica12b; 12-07-2013 at 11:38 PM.
    I like my femself; it makes me feel more civilized, i think girltime should be a requirment for all kids.

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    Maybe my misplaced thoughts.
    I have always thought being CD brought less to the table.
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    and beauty will follow.

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