This seems to happen to me every six months or so...
I am a normal, somewhat blah-looking, dude. I'm six feet tall and currently have a two day beard growth working. I have a mid-back pony tail tied back at the nape.
I walk into the bagel shop this morning in sweats. The manager looks up and asks "how can I help you ma'am. Oh, sorry, sir."
The only clue I'm presenting is that my hair is tied back.
My point to my sisters is that people see what they want to see. They are not evaluating the gender of everybody they come across trying to clock you if you're "in disguise". Present nicely and the world is yours. Hugs, Michelle