So as I continually try to find out what crossdressing means in my life and myself I run into a contradiction. I can't seem to eliminate crossdressing no matter my intentions to give it up. (i've made my peace with that and no longer intend to) In that way it is a core part of me.
But at the same time it doesn't seem to influence my "self" as much as other core parts of me (I.e. engineering, martial arts ... ) Only rarely does lack of crossdressing make me eddgy or obsessed. Lack of other critical parts of my show consequences in a week.
So how is something both inescapable but not really integral to my sense of self? Is it more integral than I realize but being in the closet keeps it less manifested?
I'm curious as to opinions on the subject.