The One Thing...

[laciewhite]

just wondering what that special item is that you need for a successful transition/crossover? the one thing that would ruin everything else if you didn't have it?

i'm a nylon gurl at heart...i remember trying on a pair of my dad's girlfriend's white stockings when i was barely out of puberty and having my mind blown. they were just dangling there on the radiator drying off and i just borrowed them for a little while. ( i was just a kid then and my feet were small enough i could try on all her shoes too..that lady had a lot to answer for!

so anyway...i think that even if i had the biggest pile of make-up, lingerie and heels to fool around with, if there weren't any stockings to put on it just wouldn't work out.

[Dianne S]

Bra and breast forms. Well, I guess that's 2 (3?) things.

[Marcelle]

I am assuming you mean when dressing "en femme" and not "transitioning" in the sense of TS. Anyway for me to complete and an absolute must a wig without it I look like Sinead O'Connor only not as pretty.

Hugs

Isha

[LaraPeterson]

lacie, I've enjoyed so many things for long, I'm not sure I can nail it down to one item; even if I'm just lounging around the house en femme, want my pantyhose, bra, cincher, heels, nails, jewelry, makeup and hair. I almost always do my nails last and when I do something comes over me that "completes" me.

[Beverley Sims]

Not being a fetishist ther is little that turns me on more than anything else.
I find clothing all tools of the trade.
You need a combination it all to be a success.

[StacyCD]

I second the idea of a bra and forms!

[docrobbysherry]

I'm with Bev. I need it ALL to look good.

Altho, buying my Femskin female suit WAS a life altering experience for me!

[Adriana Moretti]

yes...i feel its a combo of things too guess it really depends on where you are at with dressing and how comfortable you are

[Rachael Leigh]

Got to be the wig for me as well, at my age just don't have the right look with hair anymore.

[Rachel Morley]

"Hair" and makeup go together for me. I can't feel right without those two no matter what else I'm wearing.

[PatriciaC]

This is begining to get the feel of a Monty Python sketch.

One thing - the hair, just the hair.
well and the forms, - two things the hair and the forms
well and the makeup - three things ...............................
You can manage the rest:-)

Patricia

[EmilyPith]

and NOBODY expects the Spanish Inquisition!

[Connie.Marie]

Lacie,
THE "ONE THING" changes over the years.
For me,
At first it was wearing a bra,
then later it was having long hair with a wig.
then wearing a dress or skirt,
A while later it was heels.
Lately it's been makeup & nails.
I wonder what it will be next?

Hugs, Connie Marie

[laciewhite]

I am assuming you mean when dressing "en femme" and not "transitioning" in the sense of TS.

yes, sorry. i mean anything from a secret 10 minute quickie to a whole lifetime!

[JessicaKasey]

A must for me is the wig. I can get on without much else but without the wig the make up would look awful and everything else out of place!

[Zylia]

+1 on the hair. No wig breaks the illusion pretty fast.

[Jennifer Kelly]

Has to be the wig. My real hair is pretty short and just kills any look I'm going for.

[Katey888]

Lacie - tricky... at one time it would just have been sheer nylons/ tights - but I admit I'm having more fun as things progress with makeup and wigs now.
Ohhhh! And perfume. It's very well recognised how powerful an olfactory trigger can be - I'm having an experience with CK Escape at the moment... just a casual niff gets me going ... Just have to be careful as I have a wife who has rarely worn perfume (no, really - it's a bit strange, I know - sensitive skin...).
Kateyx

[linda allen]

Boobs...

[Flirty_Fantasies]

It's a beautiful wig for me.....

[Jessica giovanna]

My hair is a must! And, please forgive me....a pair of really, really tight @ss jeans! But that's just me!
Ms. G

[Lynn Marie]

Definite "transition" when the hair goes on.

[NicoleScott]

I have a fetish for high heels, but not for pantyhose/stockings. I LIKE them, but have no fetish for them. Still, I could never wear high heels without pantyhose/stockings.
Likewise, I have no fetish for wigs. But I could not consider my transformation complete without a wig.
Your question asked what was essential for a transformation. While I much prefer to transform completely, there have been many times when time didn't permit a complete transformation. In that case, "feeding the fetish" requires high heels (with pantyhose/stockings) and deep red lipstick.

[Wendy me]

things don't do it for me .... for me to be Wendy it's who i am Wendy likes all the fem things for sure ..... for me it's in my head and heart ... Wendy comes from within me.... i can be dressed all done up and not be Wendy.... wendy is a state of mind even in drab Wendy is here....she just likes to wear cute things.....

[I Am Paula]

Confidence!!! It is the most important part of your whole wardrobe.