Well, since Angela posted a really great thread about "as long as you're happy", I thought I'd go ahead and mention the other thing that's frequently said to me, and see how y'all felt about this, and if people said this to you.
Last night, while sitting at a restaurant, I saw a gay couple that I know. They are older, and just super-nice guys. The older one stopped by my table (I waved at him), and kissed my hand, and said "I applaud the courage it takes to do what you are doing."
I get told that I'm brave a lot. Anyone else get told this? The thing is - I don't especially feel brave. Mostly I'm just doing what I have to do to survive, although I certainly appreciate the compliment and the sentiment and understanding behind it.
I feel OK about these statements, although sometimes I wonder "wow, do I look that bad?" lol.
Anyone else experience this? How did it make you feel?