I think some people will stretch their imagination in any way necessary to keep from admitting to themselves or anyone else that they're gay. Gets back to the penis thing, in my opinion. I can't for the life of me understand why its such a big deal to admit to oneself. I get being private about it. I also get being attracted only to people who look like women. I'm only attracted to those who look like women. For me, though, one who looks like a woman but has a penis is what flips my switch. Nothing straight about that.