It seems, as I have mentioned in my other post, that there are numerous problems with my SO and my marriage. From her finding about me CDing, wanting to be a women, shaving, or some other non related issue. No matter if it is in fact my fault or not. These issues bring up the subject of divorce and a few days later things are back to normal. At the current moment things are back to normal and she is being a lot more affectionate and playful. Even telling me she needs attention. The thing that has me scratching my head is that she is looking at wedding dresses, talking about her next wedding she's going to have, if she invites me would I go ( but it then again she may not because it would be weird), wants to remove me as a beneficiary and have just the kids from her 401k and life, joking about if it's okay if her BF buy her something, or if it would be ok to go on dates with her BF. When I say something about her comments, she just laughs and tells me that she says these things because I apparently get all moody. That if she really did have a BF, she would not be with me. Am I over reacting or am I missing something?
Here's an interesting side note: today when I went into Starbucks an old neighbor, who we haven't spoken to for the past year and a half asked me if I was divorced. The only way this person would know is if my So stated something on Facebook (she is friends with them) or she has said something to a family friend who is neighbors to the person that asked me the question at Starbucks.