My girlfriend and I have been living in separate states for the last year due to the work situation and will be moving back in together here soon. I've been wanting to have a re-establish boundaries discussion with her before the move just so things go as smoothly as possible.
Had planned to bring it up over the holidays but I chickened out. I would wake up from crossdressing dreams in the middle of the night and lay awake for awhile thinking over the conversation and everything seemed like it would go ok and I would get enthused to do it but then during the day all the confidence would go away. Couple that with she was in such a good mood over the holidays, she's been working hellish hours and this has been her first real break in months and I didn't want to spoil the time for her.
Will be going to visit one more time before the move. Will try again. Might try and make it just a bullet point discussion so as not to overwhelm her with stuff. This is what I don't want to do, this is what I want to do, these are the things you might be unable to avoid seeing unless I don't do them at all.