Hey everyone, I know there was a similar topic about going out in public made not too long ago, however this is a sub section of that and is specific to my girlfriend and I's debate tonight.
I casually mentioned going out dressed tonight, just for a drive (it was just past midnight with no one really out) and to my surprise my girlfriend was all for it! After getting into details on it though I soon realized that she missed the part of the conversation about my being dressed up in "girl mode", and once she heard that part again refused the whole scenario and then got upset with me and asked why do I always want to go outside? Her and I both want to keep my CD'ing private, she supports me and even buys me outfits without me even asking, however she's very private about it just like myself.
I understand her concerns with keeping it private, and we've only gone out once before with me CD'ing and it went off without a hitch. I don't want to just run outside and say "HEY EVERYONE, LOOK AT ME I'M A CROSSDRESSER!" lol I want to plan things and do something that is 100% fool-proof, it's not like I desire to go and order food from where her best friend works and out myself. And I do pass as female nearly 100% the only thing left to perfect is my female voice though it's passable currently also.
I'm pretty confident that if someone who's only saw me in guy mode seen me in girl mode, they'd never recognize me anyway. I think my gf may forget how dramatic of a transformation it is since she's now seen me CD so often that she sees both the guy and girl elements in my appearance in either form.
So anyway, I didn't really have an answer for her as to why nearly all CD'ers have this desire and it kind of upset me that I couldn't answer her questions and sort of left her hanging and wondering. Is there a general reason why? Can anyone here explain this better than I can so I can show her?
Again, she's an amazing girlfriend and supports me always, and is even attracted to me as a girl, she just doesn't understand some aspects and frankly neither do I. lol