Sometimes when I have been in a group of CD's with their GG partners I have carried out a very unscientific survey of how CD's and partners' view their dressing by asking the CD's -- "if there was a magic pill which would instantly remove your urge to crossdress without changing you in any other way would you take it?" For GG partners the question is of course changed to "would you put the magic pill in your partners coffee without him knowing?"
I haven't kept a detailed score and I accept that my sample is not huge but my recollection of the answers I've been given is that CD's mostly would not take the pill and that nearly all partners would administer it clandestinely. Assuming my unscientific survey is representative of the CD community I'm still not sure how to interpret it except to conclude that at heart we are all fundamentally selfish.