Having been married to my darling wife for almost 50 years before cancer took her, and never having any thoughts of trying anything else I guess I would be classified as a very "straight" person. However, I do have some thoughts, or curiosity, about what it would be like to actually be treated as a woman! And I do mean completely!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
Well.... Pushing far past my prime.....
Never had a gay relationship / desire.....
I am amazed at how attractive many CD's are......
I am not sure what that makes me, as it is (IMO) the female presentation that sparks the attraction......
Still I have to say that when I am dressed as a fem, I feel gratitude / excitement when guys find me attractive / enticing.
Might also be the aspect that it is far more exciting to be the person being chased rather than the person doing the chasing.
To try to say that another way, as a guy you rarely know when a woman finds you desirable.
But dressed as a woman it is extremely thrilling to find people that see me as attractive / desirable, and they show that emotion openly.
How straight is Seana?
If something happened to my GG S.O. I would be looking for another GG. Sorry to those on this board who may be disappointed by that, but yes I have made up my mind from an early age (without "experimentation") that I wanted a woman in my life. There is just something about GGs that is attractive to me beyond compare.
At one time I seriously considered wanting to meet some of my acquaintances who also CD, but I am very hesitant because it seems like too many are obsessed with this sex thing. Why would I want to meet another CD if not for sex? you may be asking......well it is one thing to chat online with those who have been down the same road. But to meet another in person would seem like greater verification that I am not the only guy who likes to wear dresses and yet is straight.
Sometimes, I still wonder if I am a rarity
Me personally, I am "bent around the edges"!!!!! I am bi and have had my expectations realized and "let down" as well. I am probably more on the "gay" side than I realize.
Molly
"To thine own self be true"
for me , I have always been straight.... living in a small town .... I have always been in the closet..... as for the porn I like to watch it has always just been women in satin lingerie and hosiery until lately , maybe the last couple years ... I started finding a few vids of cds wearing hose and satin gowns that I seem to like a lot because its like I know how good that must be feeling.... kinda weird though is that I only seem to like them if they are self filmed or I guess that is what is called point of view POV ? If it is a vid of a guy and a girl I don't seem to like it if I can see the guys face .... so guess that makes me a little confused .... I've never been with another CD but sometimes I think I would like to play with someone in a big pile of satin nighties and hosiery.....
I see this as a 'roles' issue for some. If you are accepting a 'submissive' role while 'en femme', then you are "flexible" on orientation.
If your inner image is a girl, and you get a case of 'helium heels' in that mode when presented with a big burly MALE who WANTS you.. then you ate NOT straight. I'm not going to make a claim on what you ARE, but it ISN'T straight.
Why get hung up on that? You like what you like. Why are you so worried about the label?
-MM
- Madame Moose - on my way to Anne
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This is exactly where I fall in as well...Originally Posted by Tami Monroe
I've had sexual encounters with both men & women, and to be honest I've enjoyed my encounters far more with men than women.
Dating however, I prefer women. I've tried to start relationships with men and they've all gone no where, women I've had much more luck with and honestly I prefer a relationship much more with women, although that could be attributed to my dating life going no where with men.
So I'd say I'm not that straight at all, I guess "bi" is a good a word as any to describe me.
Fear of losing hetero privilege / homophobia / denial.
Oh, what a complicated answer to such a simple question. I have no desire for sex with anyone, but I would like a relationship with a woman, just not one that involves sex. I am not sure what you would call it but that is where i am at.
Since the OP framed the issue in the form of a question relating to porn I thought that I'd reply to this thread. I am a late bloomer as a crossdresser. I thought I was soooo straight when I younger! In the early/mid 1990's I was surfing the early internet, looking at porn, of course, when I saw my first transgender site. It was pretty mild stuff, mostly just girls with boob jobs and that something extra posing in the nude. I was fascinated, and, being of an adventurous spirit, I decided that I had to find out what those girls were all about. I dated a few as an Admirer, and then began to realize that I didn't want to be the Admirer, I wanted to be the trans-girl. I started dressing, and since my interest was sexual to begin with, I segued into being the girl with other crossdressers, and then into dating men. I still think of myself as bisexual, but the truth is that I haven't had a sexual experience with a woman for a relatively long time, and have had relations with quite a few men in the same period of time.
It's not purely a physical thing. Psychologically, I like the feeling of being the one who is desired. I like being the person who is being pursued, the one who gets bottles of wine, and invitations for drinks and dinner from her dates. I sometimes feel that I am more in control as a woman than I ever was as a man.
Have never met a totally Hetro. crossdresser.....
You need to get out more!!!
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...r-but-straight
http://www.experienceproject.com/sto...re-Gay/1847982
http://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=54838.0
http://www.mycdlife.com/2009/05/cros...essers-are-gay
http://balkwell.myweb.uga.edu/kimberj.html
Black is ALWAYS the, "New Black!"
"I really hate it when people accuse me of wearing Womens clothes... these aren't Womens clothes... I f*****g bought them!!!" Eddie Izzard.
As straight as can be pretty much.
I like gurls, whats that mean?
I can totally relate to this. I knew I was bisexual many years ago but I never realized why it was only towards other cd or tg types. To this day I prefer women but still have an attraction to males dressed as females, yet I have no attraction what-so-ever to genetic looking males. Sure makes being tg tougher than it already is.
Erica
I'm pretty sure I'm as hetro as you can get... Only interested in girls (well one girl, married her 17 years ago).
Call me Donna, please
I'm a hetero man. I don't like other men. After I become a woman, I still want to be with women.
Charlotte
Really? Does nothing for me what so ever lol you think it would me being gay and all, yet I can see why guys would get turned on when you have man with girl porn I get more turned on by that perhaps it's because inside I see my self as a female and for that reason I side with the female as it's the roll I prefer to take while sleeping with my bf
Truth be told, I have no idea how straight of a guy I am. I have only and always dated exclusively women. I have only had sex with women. When I was much, much younger, perhaps around 11 or 12, my next door neighbor male friend made a pass at me while we were wrestling around in my dad's basement as a lot of boys that age do. I think he was a year or two older than me. He started stroking my back and legs if I remember right, in a sexual way. I got immediately uncomfortable with it and pushed myself away from him and diffused the situation. Needless to say, things were never the same between us again. Years later, when the Catholic abuse scandal came to light, I started wondering if this friend had been abused, since he was an alter boy in a nearby Catholic church. I don't know if that happened or had anything to do with it. It just made me think about it. I have no idea where he lives now nor whether he is gay, or bi, or was just experimenting. And before I get a bunch of flack, I know that not all Catholic alter boys get abused by priests. I was just iterating something I thought about.
Several years later in high school, I had another friend who made a pass at me in his bedroom. No, we we weren't there for that "kind" of thing. We were both into music and we were thinking of starting a band. He was into "space" things and astronomy, too. He had painted the Milky Way galaxy onto his ceiling in luminescent paint of some kind that glowed in the dark. We were listening to some music (probably Pink Floyd) and he turned off the lights and we were checking out the ceiling. Eventually, his hands started rubbing on my back and chest. Immediately, again, I got uncomfortable, got up, and turned the light on and put a stop to it. Again, this friend and I were never the same again.
When I'm dressed I sometimes have "fantasies" about "playing" the female role in a relationship, but I guess that would be with a heterosexual man, not a gay man. But, that's all they are, just fantasies. I really have no attraction to the male body.
That's why I started this post with I'm not sure how straight of a guy I am.
I think a lot of tgirls are turned on by the thought of hooking up with a guy, but don't take action on it.
I think of myself as a "third gender" and why I am attracted to certain people is often a mystery. I spent nine months trying to seduce a straight divorced guy.
I tend to think less about the labels of sexual orientation and basically do what feels good. I would have to put myself in an intermediate category between straight and bicurious. I am curious, but only mildly. I'm almost 100% straight. I don't find men attractive, but I do think sex would be fun on the receiving end. I LOVE women and find only about half of them unattractive. Which in my book, is a very small percentage.
I'm exclusively attracted to females, whether cis or trans. I suppose that makes me straight, although I've always been curious about the terminology when one's role-playing as a female or in the process of transitioning.
I'm also pretty bad at detecting whether a guy is good looking or not. I just know whether they look like they'd be my friend or not! *shrugs*
the older i get the more i can admit i am attracted to males. although women are still super hot and sexy, now i just find me the same way. i guess i am at the midpoint headed the other way... lol
I actually had a couple of excellent gay opportunities when I was younger, and punted on both of them
Hi, I'm Steffi and I'm a crossdresser... And I accept and celebrate both sides of me. Or, maybe I'm gender fluid.
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