I know this is a fear of my wife, that eventually enough time will pass, and I will become comfortable enough with the feminine side that the feminine side will want what most feminine people want. I can only say that I have never had any type of male interest, CD or otherwise. Yes, there are some CD's who do a wonderful job at looking feminine, even gorgeous perhaps. But, they are men. I simply prefer anything feminine and female when it comes to sexuality.
Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned
Only ever been attracted to women. I've had two long term relationships in my life, and neither knew about my CDing. I was actually very worried about the chance one of them may find out.
Umm, definitely not straight though my sexual experiences with guys are limited. I would describe myself as bi though I am leaning more towards guys lately. I still find females as attractive as ever I just have not had an desires for such involvements with them for a few years now. I have never actually be in a relationship as such with a guy but really want to. Just not easy to find truth to tell.
So far as porn, I had very limited exposure to this as a teen. I had seen a few mags and nothing too hard core really. When I first saw porn videos as a young adult I automatically felt more like I wanted to be the woman. This lead to some confusion as I hadn't really had desires towards guys before this.
As far as what porn interests me - I have only two requirements, it must contain penises and it must have at least one person dressed as and playing the female role (and a big bonus if she keeps some of the clothing on).
Aeslyn, you hit the nail right on the head. Fully agree on that!
How straight am I?
Straight as an arrow, honey!
People try to put us down
Just because we get around
I get turned on when I wear a strain gauge!
Ok... So here goes. Love women and love their bodies so much. Guys bodies do nothing for me. That would be too easy of answer though and you know how everything is much more complicated for us... So... Whenever I watch porn I fantasize about being the girl. I imagine I'm her being taken by the guy, etc., When I dress up I also feel that way. I want to be like a girl and meet a guy and taken but then I realize I don't have a V. That saddens me at times.
Anyways..I've never been with a guy and don't want to. I'm not into that, but when I am dressed I would only want to do one thing to a guy. I don't know what to take from it. I don't think I'm bi. My drab side definitely doesn't want a guy but my girl side wants to do things. So complicated!
Exactly the way I think... I love women sooo much and everything about them. I am soo attracted to them that, if I were a girl, I would be a lesbian. However, as a CD, I sometimes fantasize about being with a man to explore the very feminine side I have in me. I really don't know how to handle that feeling though. As Steffani said it: so complicated!Originally Posted by Steffani
I guess this makes 3 of us lol............im very straight and been with my wife for 11 years now (she supports my CD habit ) never attracted to men in the least bit. however something is just so sexy about getting with a hot TS/ TG....even if it is only for 1 time! It is definitely a fantasy for me. problem I have is the face and body has to look like the "real thing" its not the "equipment" or below the waist that bothers me but just the part above lol.........ugggg why am I even thinking these toughts ???? sooooo complicated
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Just in Love with being Jenna the hot mess !
When I'm dressed I have to say that cross dressers drive me nuts as I think they are sexy as hell. I am not attracted to men but a cross dresser is another story I have never been with one but it is something I hope will happen in the future.
Totally Straight.
I second Jordan's statement, but find that attraction to CDs or traps even when I am not in female mode...
For myself I would say its hard to label. As a man I am straight, have no desire to be with any other man. My CD self well that is where things get a little shaddy. I'm still attracted to women, but I would also say if I was ever out with other gg I would flirt with men just as I was one of them. Same goes towards other CD's/TS/TG. I am attracted to all of those and would openly flirt with them and see what happens.
Andrea SC
Where are my heels?
I'm Pansexual. If I like you, I like YOU. Gender/wiggly bits aside.
Healthy, active & self aware turn me on.
I feel the exact same way, Steffani. I consider myself straight, and the porn I watch is primarily girl-on-girl. I always fantasize that I'm one of the girls! Sometimes I like gangbang videos and pretend that my "reward" for becoming a girl is getting mercilessly violated over and over again.
In my mind though, I'm a women who loves other women. If I were a GG, I definitely wouldn't mind sex with men on occasion (what a waste if not!), but it wouldn't be intimate or anything that lasts more than one night at a time. In reality, I have no interest in that whatsoever.
I do fantasize about being the girls in the bukkae videos, and would absolutely love to play a submissive role in guy-on-girl sex, so long as I was the girl.
I have to admit though, if I see a video with a gorgous CD that passes really well, I'll occasionally watch those. I figure she's just like me, so why not?
I am definitely bi. I love woman but I do love the whole man thing as well. I've been with only one guy and that has been so long ago but it was still wonderful and it lasted a year. Since being married to my second wife (ex not because of the guy thing) I haven't ever strayed but I would not mind with the right guy again. I would of course only if I could dress fem. That's the best part as well. To have a mans hands other than my own (lol) on my legs, back and arms is great.
On the Kinsey scale I would be a 3 lol.
"Understanding is the first step toward acceptance." Albus Dumbledore
I have been with my wife for over 20 years, and when we were first together we were both bisexually active. We have been faithful to each other, and I have just coped with the lack of males in my bed. One of my long term friends (also in a relationship) recently started hinting that he kinda, wanted to get naked with me. He had never been with a guy. So I talked to my wife, and she gave me permission to bed him. He apparently likes the idea of me dressing up for him too, so another excuse to wear a skirt..
I'm a lucky person.
Traps?? What does that mean?
if you use the search feature you would get this
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ighlight=traps
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
I can imagine being with a man sexually. But I can not imagine having a heartfelt emotional conversation with a man. I feel like this is a serious key element. I am arrogant in my relations to other men.
Yeah and I only thought about females in puberty.
Even back in the days before SRS etc.... I had more curves and kinks than a 50' water hose strung about a rocky hillside.
I've always considered myself "straight" -- as a man I'm attracted to everything woman, and as a woman I guess I do want to attract men. Not so much sexually, just romantically -- I'd love the attention, the romance, the being taken-care-of, the romantic dinner, a man in a tux, dancing together... but when the fantasy gets to sex, I want to look down and see breasts (not rubber forms), and see a penis in a vagina. That's where it falls apart for me. i don't want to be a man with a man, and I can't be a woman with a man sexually. So I guess I avoid those thoughts, and just be myself as a woman with some level of sexual tension I suppose, but I simply enjoy it without making it pornographic.
I am most def a bi CD'er. I have been with the same woman for over 20 years. But I do have one guy that has me dress for him and he treats me like an innocent little girl sometimes. Kinda creepy I know but its a lot of fun when we get together.
The older you get, the ore confused it gets... at 52 all is sort of blurry.. Those low T comercials make me think two ways... try raising it, or go with wat nature maybe intended for me
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