Honestly, I'll have to get back to you on that... ;P
Honestly, I'll have to get back to you on that... ;P
Straight male crossdresser here. When I told my wife I liked to wear women's clothes the first thing she asked was "Are you gay?" (This was after more than thirty years of marriage). I think it's a mistake many folks make thinking crossdressers are gay. I think most are straight.
I've never been sexually attracted to men and I can't think of a single one that I would want to get that close to even if I was dressed as a female at the time.
I agree with you, but MUST add the following exception... And after a great deal of careful thought and consideration, that exception would be Johnny Depp. If the opportunity ever presented itself, I feel I would be more than willing to "take one for the team."Originally Posted by Krisi
I definitely consider myself bi as I still like women but when I am dressed all I want is to be with a man but i am very fussy and don't find many men attractive. I sometimes see someone and think 'wow' but that doesn't happen very often.
There is also a nervous aspect to it but I know that one day I will find a guy who likes me dressed and we can be intimate. I do also feel that when I am dressed I want to act like a women, especially in bed. The trouble is I cannot stop thinking about it. My experiences with women, i.e. 3 divorces have left me not really wanting to be involved with a women again even though i do find them attractive.
So .......... straight, 'not at all'. Bi 'probably'....... Gay 'definitely'. Bit of a contradiction but when dressed I am 100% gay and feel cool about it.
The day I do eventually get my dream I know I will be a great girly lover to my man and he will feel like he wants more of me, which will be good.
Lucy Lou xx
Wow. Lucy Lou get out of my head. That's EXACTLY how I feel.
May you live long and prosper.
Infinite diversity in infinite combinations.
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Thanks Shadeauxmarie. I love it when someone answers one of my comments, especially a comment like that. We will get there. Kisses Lucy Lou.xx
I'm not going to read all 157 posts on this thread just to put in my two cents. I get the idea. My thought: If you have only been with women up till now and only fantasize about men or other gurls then you may say you are straight. If you get physical with another gurl or man AND want to do it again you are bi or gay. Now doesn't that simplify matters.
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It's the same with me. I consider myself a little bi, because I can get easily turned on by cds and transgirls.
Put it this way: I always chuckle when people refer to me as "the straightest guy I know," or things of that ilk.
In general, I'm far more attracted to femininity than masculinity. But I'll take a lover as my heart and mind and the butterflies in my belly see fit.
Fair enough?
Haven't played outside this marriage, but definitely Bi. Au femme, could definitely see myself in the arms of some gentleman, and maybe more.
Traci Melissa Knight
To thine own self be true
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear
Careful there Traci, that "maybe more" will get you in trouble every time.
Pan-sexual here...
Lori
Pansexual here, I fall in love with the person regardless of gender.
Well I enjoy dressing up and like to feel girly, but although I consider myself straight I do think about what it would be like to be with a man... actually another cross dresser, so I think that if I were ever in a situation where I had the chance to explore being bi then if I were brave enough at the time I'd very much like to think I'd go for it and see.
I've always thought of things just "evolving" or shifting, as some of you have pointed out. What does it matter, as long as one's happy?
Pansexual and quite happy at the moment to be on my own. If something happens with someone then I'll be happy with that too. My day's of labeling people are long gone. "There's one life and there's no return and no deposit, one life and it's time to open up your closet". I think one limits oneself by limiting others. I don't care what anyone does with their genitals as long as it's consensual. Have fun ladies and gentlemen.
"Slipping into stockings, stepping into shoes"
The shortness of life prevents us from entertaining far-off hopes. From Horace’s Odes, Book 1,4
I have wondered at times if my crossdressing meant that I might be gay. I have never had the desire to be with a man. Recently though, I have had dreams of being with another CD. I am caught up with the look of a beautiful figure in skirts/dresses, heels or boots and hosiery. I've seen on the internet pictures of CD's who are to me very attractive dressing this way and I have fantasies about being with them. Not sure what that makes me. I definitely love the site of a beautiful woman but there's always a chance I could be attracted to a CD as well.
I will admit that I am 100% Bi...... When I was younger, I enjoyed both guys and girls. Since I have been married, that has stopped and I am completely faithful to my wife of 30+ years. Don't get me wrong, there have ben times I thought about dressing up and straying, my wife would help to handle that desire to stray. It is funny that we both can look at guys or woman and comment on their looks, if they are hot or not.
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I'm straight but bi-curious, mostly in fantasy. In femme mode, I fantasize about being with men, usually with a woman present. I've had a couple of real life bi experiences but they have never lived up to the fantasy.
What Pamela said,but no real life experiences,only the fantasy.
I would say im bi-curious, never had the guts to go through with anything tho.
Personally I'm not nor have I ever been attracted to a male whether dressed fem or not. I am attrated to females and think about them all the time looking like them or being with a female as well.
I think that I must be a lesbian....................
I've never spent to much time worrying about exactly what box I fit in but I do consider myself bi with more of a preference for women. I never really questioned my sexuality too much and no matter what it is, I'm not going to be ashamed of it.
Totally straight. However wanting to experiment with a MtF or FtM. Thanks porn. lol.
So apparently I'm not only not a guy, but I am not straight either, I am a big ol' trans lesbian. A really big trans lesbian...
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