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Thread: So... Just how straight of a guy are you??

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    New Member Ivy Lee's Avatar
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    I dont know how to answer this because when i am Ivy i adopt a female mindset. When I am in guy mode I am straight and the thought of guys is pretty gross. That might seem hypocritical however because as Ivy not only do I think about men but I have had sex with men. So i guess I am straight in male mode and straight in female mode?

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    hmmm...i wanted to ask you gals that question about me, lol...definitely not straight as an arrow..just bent like a cute curtsy.

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    Thought I'd weigh in on this thread. I've really enjoyed most of the responses and really appreciate the honest and frank discussion. Protestations to the contrary, we should embrace universal acceptance and love for one another. Labels mean nothing. It is so important to simply be true to oneself--as long as you are doing no harm to anyone.

    So who am I? I imagine the most accurate description would be bisexual. I am reluctant to use the term as those of us who have sexual encounters with both males and females are often rejected by both "teams."

    I have to admit that I prefer the company of men but I seldom have sex while crossdressed. I adore the rituals of femininization and transformation, and I thrill to the thought of turning heads, but when a guy tries to simplify satisfy some kinky urge with a guy in a skirt, I have to question his sincerity. If he wants to get with me, he had better accept me sans clothes and makeup.

    I love hanging out with my girlfriends and sister crossdressers, but I won't quit the gay lifestyle. Nor can I deny my attraction to beautiful women.

    So there. Have I confused you yet. Thanks for the opportunity to share. XO

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    arrow in drab - lesbian en femme

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    I cannot say that I am 100% straight but just how far over that straight line I may fall? I don't know. I am attracted to women of all kinds, I love the female body, the lines, the curves all of it but you get a CD who is not quite 100% passable but passable enough and I am equally attracted to that, maybe more so in some cases. IF I look at porn when I am "alone with my computer" it is typically a mix of about 50/50 straight/CD but almost always includes oral.

    I have kissed a CD before and that kiss sticks with me to this day, very memorable and I could describe it in full detail (and I relive it sometimes for the thrill of it) I would consider myself bi maybe? even though I have had very limited experiences with a CD/TS (never a straight up guy but I think about it a lot) I feel that to my friends etc my answer would be "I'm straight" if I have to be 100% honest, I would have to say that I am Bi though because I am attracted to CD's as much as a genetic females a lot of times.

    Still really new to the whole idea of being able to admit some of this stuff so sorry if any of that came off random.

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    Faithfully married non-practicing bisexual. Wouldn't cheat on her with a woman or a man.
    Not saying I don't look at both female and male beauty.......I've watched the movie Magic Mike 3 times in the past week, and I don't know who's hotter; Channing Tatum or Olivia Munn.
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    Bitch, you ain't cute. Milou's Avatar
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    Straight, but slowly becoming bi-curious. Might due to some weird shit porn I'm watching.

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    Bi-curious definitely. One aspect of crossdressing that I often think about is flirting with men.

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    Late to the party, I know.. I'd say I'm 100% A-Sexual.

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    Personally, I like girls. To quote one of my personal heroes, Ed Wood; "I love women. Wearing their clothing makes me feel closer to them." (Okay, it was from the movie, but he probably said something similar at one point. )

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    Meh...the equipment doesnt matter. Its all in the eyes and in the moment.
    Though frankly, I expect those days are behind me. Married faithfully to the same woman for more than twenty years, and my boy bits now largely useless (between age and hormonal additives) I don't expect to be involved in much again anyway. I think it odd that I always thought dressing was associated with sex but apparently not. My libido may be finished but my love of dressing is stronger than ever.
    Now in my younger years...well...Sammie got around quite a bit....my track record was long and about 99% with females. But I always had an open ...mind. tee hee.

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    when dressed I am bi otherwise in drab very straight if thats any clearer. I confuse myself too

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    Would never be the initiator, but known to go with flow.

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    Totally straight (or at least as straight as a lesbian in a man's body can be) . If I watch porn, I can't get turned on if there is a guy in it. Men are a major turn off for me.

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    Welllll...I totally like GG's. And totally disinterested in normal males. But totally turned on by M2F CD's. So...conventionally bi or more accurately M2F lez I guess?

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    I have to agree with Beverly and Amanda.
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    I'm most definitely bi (or pan or omni...and "omni-sexual" just sounds cooler, IMHO), but the male form doesn't really do a thing for me (at least, above the waist...). I was recently afforded the opportunity to "experiment" and found it enjoyable, but at the same time, it was lacking something to the effect of "I'm not that attracted to the rest of you," if that makes any sense.

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    Definitely straight ... I'm cool with other peoples sexuality but I'm only attracted to GGs
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katey888 View Post
    Interesting thread (sometimes it's nice that they develop through the night while I'm getting my beauty sleep.. ).

    I've questioned this of myself, probably more since discussing things about myself on this forum but... nope. Men of any shape, form or vestment do nothing for me. In fairness, 'classic' porn of the sort I came across as a teenager also didn't do very much. As it turned out, I had another type of... let's call it 'fetish' - not relevant for discussion here - but that doesn't involve anything gay. I'll occasionally come across some gay fetish stuff on the web accidentally and it just makes me cringe. No offence to anyone - I'm completely tolerant of lifestyles, sexual choices, etc. but it's clearly something that switches me off completely. It's always women - even the sexy girls I chat with here (and I can be a flirt... I know... but isn't that just girly fun..?) I know that I can appreciate what goes into how they look, but that's it.

    I suppose acid test for all of us closeted types would be meeting another CD... and there's another thread opportunity...

    Katey x
    My story is exactly in alignment with Kate's so I won't repeat anything.

    This got me thinking, which is always dangerous. Imagine all of us, with professional makeovers and dressed to the nines in a club or party setting. A fabulous, memorable ladies night of the highest degree. Dancing, drinking, laughing it up. Then, the next night, we all meet in male mode at the same club.
    Would there still be the same energy and vibe?

    Whoops! Back on topic. I'm definitely not gay.
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    I am another who got in to this late. I have never ever been attracted to guys. Over the years I have been approached a few times by gay men and politely and kindly declined. If I was them, I would be hurt by an unkind refusal so how could I be unkind?
    I am turned on by one woman, just one, the one I first met 47 years ago. Only her. She is more than enough.
    I look at other women. It is more an appreciation of the beauty of the female form. Like looking at an airplane designed in the 30s and 40s when it had to operate good but also look good. Same with the early Jaguars, drive good, look good. Designers today use computer models instead of paper, pencil, and a French curve. Everything works better today, it just doesn't have the look of the flow. Women still have that svelte look even after all these years. Their bodies are one of the reasons I like being a guy. And after decades of marriage, I am still totally faithful.
    When dressed a compliment from a woman means WAY more than a compliment from a man. After all, the woman knows what to look for, how much work it is.
    So even when I am dressed, men, either straight or gay, even dressed, do nothing sexual for me. Except just being fellow travelers on spaceship earth and deserving of my friendship, compassion, and kindness, like all people.
    So no, I am not gay, bi, or attracted to men in any way.
    Always woman, one. If you knew her you would understand.

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    I'm mostly straight. But occasionally, I will see a guy and think about what it would be like to be in bed with him. Sometimes my wife will put on a guy's large flannel shirt, and I'll slip into sheer stockings, we'll get under the covers in bed, and the role-reversal is amazing...

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    Always consider myself straight until 2012 when I joined here. Now the lines are blurred because I love GG, CD, TV, TG & TS. I am not attracted to men but thinking about being dressed with another gurl like me is a real turn on. I have never experienced it but want to badly. I just don't care what my label is anymore. I do not want to go through the next 40 years being confined to what society dictated me to be until now. I have a high class girl inside and she wants to shop at Neiman Marcus in her Louboutin's with a Michael Kors or LV hanging off of her arm. I guess outsiders looking into our world here would say I am Bi and so be it. I am bi.
    I am an Artist working in all Mediums including Sexy

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    First of all, it's possible to be aroused by gay porn without being gay yourself. You may simply be aroused by the sexuality of the scene without wanting it for yourself. So I question the premise of the study.

    Secondly, I do agree with Vanessa that sexual impulses may change as one gets older. When childrearing is finished, when married sex loses some of its allure, as one becomes more tolerant, sexual tastes may broaden.

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    I always considered myself pretty straight always been attracted to woman all shapes and sizes. With my wife being bi she really loves my femme side. We sometimes look at lesbian porn and I wish I could be one of the women in it. Sometimes I'm attracted to very passable m to f cd's and every once in awhile when my wife is looking at her nude men magazines I'll see a nice looking guy who I'm somewhat attracted to but that is far and few in between. So I guess I'm 99.5 percent straight.
    "Its now official,my femme name is Felicity"

    Have to drink to that.


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    I am bi even though I have never been with a man. I am married to a wonderful woman, and one of our favorite fantasies is sharing a guy.
    I don't know why I like it, but I'm glad I do!

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