So... Just how straight of a guy are you??

[Josette_Laroc]

Outwardly, I'm about as straight as can be.

I do have a Bi past that my wife is scared of and would rather have me keep it in the past.
I have my fantasies. But I will remain faithful to my wife and live my life straight.

[PinkieM]

Totally straight.

[DreamRin]

Im pretty much bi-curious while in guy mode. But im a straight person by core, i like to be dominated and protected but can't imagine myself having a long lasting relationship with men while in guy mode.

[sillycdlover]

I consider myself BI, but with that said, I am only attracted to fem bois, CD/TGs, and women. Never could I be with a manly type of man, just doesn't do it for me.

[maya1love]

I am a (somewhat) softer, feminine gay man who likes masculine men! I like hairy chests and deep voices ...sorry, that's just how I'm programmed!

[sillycdlover]

I am a (somewhat) softer, feminine gay man who likes masculine men! I like hairy chests and deep voices ...sorry, that's just how I'm programmed!

Please don't be sorry, think of all those big hairy men and how disapointed they would be knowing you weren't into them! The wailing would be heard worldwide!

[Tami]

Been with one woman for ten years up until a couple of years ago but before that although mostly women there was the odd exception. These days my take on it is that anyone can fall in love or lust with anyone regardless. You never know what's around the corner. At the moment it's definitely girls for me be that gg or cd xx

[CD Stephanie]

Sexually, I'm only attracted to women. I've played with another CD or two, but just some light touching and exploring my curiosities. As for porn, I've gotten some good times from watching TS/She-male stuff. I especially like when a she-male is having sex with a woman. One of my big sexual attractions though is to women with large natural breasts. Only one place to find those.

[tina 1103]

totally bi for me, sexually male or female, or both.....
emotionally, could never have a love affair with a male..., just sex
most erotic experience in my life was with a female to male transgender...
he was totally passable as male, had breasts removed, was bald on top, and covered with hair,
was an awesome kisser !!! and one of the best partners I have ever experienced, not to mention he was just a real nice guy

[Talisker]

This type of question doesnt make much sense to me as people change. Homo become hetero and vice versa and many just lose interest when they get older.

At the moment im not interested in people who look male apart from a CD accessory.
Like people who look female - could be Talisker, a GG or another CD.

[Erica Grace]

Definitely straight here, nothing about men's bodies is attractive to me. But when I'm dressed I think about doing kinky stuff with the GF.. one day! The idea of putting people into one of 2 buckets confuses me, everyone is different and there is a wide spectrum where you can feel most comfortable.

[Talisker]

Totally straight.

For now

[Kiltie]

I likewise always acted straight and went through all the usual phases. I started wearing a kilt here in Scotland when i was a boy of 6 and in my teens i knew I really liked it and i also liked to be in the company of other guys wearing kilts
It wasnt until recent years that I found that I got quite a few nice comments from gay guys who obviously liked to see me in my kilts and it surprised me that I was 'turned on' by this whether i liked it or not. The fact that I wear kilts most of the time now accounts for the fact that i get more interest from people who like a man in a kilt and its really nice.
I now have an open mind about what is sexually attractive to me and believe its the right way to be.
I have a few crossdresser friends here who love to go out with me in my kilts because they can dress as they wish and feel confident they arnt being stared at all the time.

[KatieGG]

I know I'm not a man but I wanted to add my two cents on this topic, as it's something I have questioned since I was a teen and have gone from thinking a was straight to maybe I am a lesbian, maybe bi, to this day I am still not 100 on it.
I met my future husband while I was a junior in high school and knew he was a cross dresser before we started dating. In the back of my mind I always questioned if being with a cd is my way of being "straight" while still having a relationship with a "girl. I don't know if I would say I am attracted to him when he is dressed but I do think he looks cute, and I sometimes find my self getting turned on watching him getting dressed.
I also like looking at pictures of cross dressers but I don't know on what level I like it if that makes sense lol. I don't know maybe I am bi or maybe just a straight girl who likes cds.

[laura.lapinski]

KatieGG,

Well, it sounds like maybe you both have the best of both worlds. Its no big deal to have the thoughts you have. I think it kind of spices things up. You and hubby are very lucky to have each other.

Cheers!
Laura

[Penny M]

As the GG SO of a CD'er I am reading this thread with great interest! This really is my question regarding my SO. I know he is turned on by other CD'ers although he claims to be straight. I guess it is just confusing to me because I have only ever been attracted to males. I just don't understand; I am trying really hard to though. Thanks for your honesty.

[Christyheely]

I'm into feminine people and more open to exploring in girl mode.

[MustangGirl]

I have never gave much thought to the straight/gay thing. I watch all kinds of porn, and by being on this forum, I am very much into crossdressing, although not as much as I used to be. I did have one experience with a guy in college. He was my roommate, and I knew from the beginning he was gay. He told me one night he had a crush on me, and tried to kiss me. That was crossing a line, and I told him so. He said he was sorry, and could he just lay beside me and hug me. I don't know why, but I said ok. To make a long story short, he ended up sucking and licking my nipples, and in the end preformed oral on me. I did nothing in return, and for the last 45 years, I have always wondered if I missed out on something. I consider myself straight, but there is that .5% that still wonders.

[ophelia]

You know you're straight when....This is not to judge gay men. I love exploring my female inside, but together, from attending several gay weddings to being several times inappropriately touched by males, I know I am straight. It has been decades since I've had a man cut my hair. I am trying to make connections with gg's and I wonder what my physical response will be to being with a girl fully dressed.

[Mz Jenna J.]

I am attracted to all things feminine. I love women. I am not attracted to the male form at all. When I am dressed even I am not attracted to guys. However, an attractive cd/tv, I would be turned on. Am I bi? Maybe? I've been able to explore some in the past and I know what I like and what I dont. I just know I dont like regular masculine men.

[ophelia]

I've read several times that the vast majority of crossdressers are straight. But straight while presenting in which gender mode? Where can a girl find statistics to support or to deny this claim?
It is my personal quest to have a GG friend and I wonder what my feelings will be in that scenario. I've had compliments from men while dressed and I liked the notes, but I was not interested beyond that. I've had compliments from other sister CD's, but they weren't particularly feminine or stylish looking so again, thanks for the compliments, but no interest. I wonder if a wonderfully styled CD made a comp.....
I just wonder if it's the image I enjoy or lifestyle..

[Debbie W]

For me, it's all about women, dressed or drab ... except when dressed I occasionally think it'd be nice to be appreciated by a man, held and complimented, but it's not a sexual attraction.

[mariehart]

Interesting thread. I always saw myself as bisexual. When I was younger I was more attracted to girls although in fact my first big crush was on a classmate called Paul. But had many crushes on girls too. Indeed as a young teenager I decided that my crossdressing was some form of attempt to get close to girls by dressing as one. Yet even then I would lay in my bed fervently wishing I would wake up in the morning as a girl. Such was the convoluted logic that existed in my mind at that time in the seventies.

But I was comfortable with my bisexuality and never felt gay. If anything I rationalised that my interest in some guys was down to my lack of any sexual experience. I thought that in all probability I was really straight with a twist.

My first sexual experience was in my thirties with a man and I was dressed as a woman. After that it was sporadic and rare. I did have a short gay affair but when I introduced my female side it ended. I was 42 before I had sex with a woman and she remains the first and probably last. If you went to court with that evidence the jury would have no trouble finding me gay as charged.

But in reality I'm bi. But I do think that if I transitioned I would probably be a straight woman. I'm perfectly comfortable with that.

I was interested in the original post particularly where the homophobes tended to react to gay porn. I've long believed that the majority of homophobes are either gay or bisexual but have repressed it and express homophobic attitudes to protect themselves. As Shakespeare or somebody once said: 'They doth protest too much.' I always believe that anyone who thinks you can choose to be gay or bisexual must have chosen not to be. I didn't choose to be this way and I'm sure most of you out there didn't either.

One of life's ironies

[ChristinaK]

"Is it still about the clothes then?" I think you have hit upon a serious element there. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder can explain that you are more enamored by the clothing than by the gender. If you identify the clothing as the sexual stimulus then the gender remains neutral. We tend to identify the female sex by the way they dress, not necessarily by the way they look. We, as males, are visually stimulated. That manifests itself as dressed vs. non-dressed. If a man dresses as a woman, and commits the same sexual acts, we can identify that man as being feminine, even though he is anatomically a man. Furthermore, I think that fantasy plays a role in gender reversal for us cross-dressers. Whether it be in fantasy or reality depends on how far a person is willing to take it.

[Aylineira]

I'm definitely straight. Sometimes I think how can a woman even want to be with man when women are just so much more attractive.