well the title says it all. I know it can be hard for SO to deal with us crossdressers. It is not like I do it every day. Lately it has been far and few between. She knew where I kept my stuff and she threw out 7 pair of heels, some dresses, skirts and blouses and bras. She won't even tell me she threw them out. (I asked). Yes we had a big fight for her to do that. I stayed away from the house for like 3 days then she calls me and says (I know you need to dress like a woman and I don't give you the chance. You need to dress like a girl more lets get a divorce. ) I was like wow she is being civil, not the crazy out of control scorn woman. Guess what I am back in the house and things are calm. Good thing most of my good heels and other girly stuff I hid in the garage. So I wanted to feel better so I bought me some new heels. They have a 4" heel and are a dressy sandle she is away and Denise decided to play!!!